Recently I was in Tokyo (I’m 31m, not Japanese ) and enjoyed the public bathhouse culture (Onsen) . While most are gender segregated , there are many with both men and women bathing naked . These are more common in smaller cities. The other day I opened a few sets at one of these places . Cute woman , late 20s/early 30s . I open with a little Japanese and shift to English . Asked to meet me for coffee after the bath. While chatting more she noticed my erection and started rubbing it slowly in a discrete way . That really shocked me as I had heard this is a strictly no no at Onsens. I quickly tried to get her to leave with me for our coffee but she said she want to spend more time bathing . Perhaps my lack of protocol / culture or just plain stupidity , I was like “ok meet me for coffee then after this” , got her number. I got ghosted after that😂 . Regretting being not bolder ; in retrospect I should have straight taken her to the love hotel after bathing. I’m curious if anyone here has explored these Bathhouses as a way to pick up girls. Was this a one off situation or should I expand to looking for women here