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[–]5_7pickup 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the issue that so many men have with modern dating. You pondering and asking the wrong questions.
Like how you reach out the following day doesnt matter. What mattered was your interaction with her when you were right in front of her.
Did you make such an amazing impression that she would want to hang with you again?
The goal is not to get her number and hopefully hang out another time. The goal is to hang out right then and there and see where the night takes you.
In order for her to want to hang out with you at a later time, you need to make an pretty incredible impression on her. If youre able to make such an impression then she should want to hang with you right then and there.
I do solo night club game all the time in Vegas. I never aim for phone numbers. I aim for same night pulls. Go check out some of my field reports and see for yourself.
[–]TheTruth221 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
use the eye emoji then wait for a reply
[–]MrStallion22 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Feel like I responded to your previous post relating to this?…
First thing to say bro is her giving you her number is no big deal. It might mean she liked you in the moment at that particular time but it certainly doesn’t mean she will have retained those warm feelings towards you the next day. So just bare this in mind. It’s why I always say forget about the number and try to make it happen there and then to build on those positive feelings IN THE MOMENT.
So with that said I would text her the very next day that you got the number. No need to play games and wait a week before texting her, continue the momentum and text her the next day or asap if that’s already passed. Something casual like:
hey, how was your night in the end Was feeling pretty rough in the morning lol
Then just have a 1-2 message back and forth and ideally try to use a chase frame during your initial texts, PM me if you’re not sure what this looks like.
Anyway after 2-3 texts ask her out for a drink, find out when you’re both free but crucially, to minimise flaking, you want to set a date at least 5 days since you met her to keep up the momentum. You’ll notice I use the word momentum a lot - that’s because more than anything you’re trying to make sure this doesn’t fizzle out. Girls you meet at night in clubs and bars are the flakiest girls out there so momentum is everything!
Once you’ve agreed the date I’d text her the night before to double-check she’s still good to meet with you; this just further decreases any chance of flaking.
And that’s it in terms of texting! Let us know how it goes! ;)
[–]Spinuchi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya you did haha.. I felt the same should reach out the next day because bar/club settings people are drunk etc.. And good chance i wasnt the only one so I figured I should keep the momentum going. I started off kind of playful based on the introduction we had last night. And kind of cut to the chase. Just asked if she was free to grab a drink this week.. We will see what happens.. Not getting my hopes up a ive been reading on here that these situations are usually pretty flakey.
Its going well set up for wednsday, and she seems very excited to meet up. Following the routine of not texting too much or anythingm set the date and just replied with im looking forward to it! Have a plan setup to meet her at a speakeasy near her olace, which is right across the street from a popular barcade out here. So a cocktail or two at the speakeasy, then across the street to have some fun at the barcade. This place has been very succesful for me in the past to break down touch barriers etc. And have a great time in general
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you asking for what trick or magic bullet to use so you can get in her pants? Like the perfect text or pickup line?
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