Here is the thing regarding the needy man theory that i read and hear about all over the net.

The statement was that if a men shows too much neediness toward a woman then this turn her off and she lose interest on him. The explanation about this i did not hear much about it but i just heard that this women nature.. Etc Just an inner nature right?

Well my view is a bit different. I think that this type of behaviour is abnormal for a person. Indeed someone having a good "mental health" is not supposed to show that kind of behavior unless there is a deviation /corruption/ scars inside. Normally a person is supposed to express his feelings and refuse what he is not ready to do but accepting everything means that the person has issues of fears may be.