Date not confirmed what do I do?

ShampooMonK · 2022-01-18T18:47:33+00:00

I said I’m busy Sunday but Saturday is perfect for me check with your friends let me know. She said sure. What do I do here? It’s been 2 days since she said anything. To clarify the sure is she will to letting me know.

I will say this for future reference.

STOP putting the ball in women's court. Men need to be leaders, we need to be direct and state that we're not going to let people waste our time.

ANY TIME YOU LET A WOMAN DECIDE TO GET BACK TO YOU, 70-80% CHANCES ARE THEY WILL NEVER EVER GET BACK TO YOU!

MEN NEED to LEAD and dictate/be the decision maker.

Any time a women tells you the following:

"Maybe, next week?
Let me check my schedule.
I'll get back to you.
Maybe. I'll let you know."

That's a no, or veering very close to, "hmm... let me check my options and see if you're even worth investing my time."

If a woman hits you with any of those, tell her this.

"I'm free Friday or Saturday. Pick a day that works for you."

If she's noncommittal on getting back to you, or just seems uninterested, go find someone else.

That's it.

Now, in response with what you stated.

Date not confirmed what do I do?

I would shoot her a brief text.

"Hey, are we still on for Saturday?"

This may come off as needy or clingy - although personally, I would disagree with that. I think any man should be the one inquiring and making sure their time isn't being wasted.

WeakEmu8 · 2022-01-18T18:15:17+00:00

Make a date with someone else.

jason-todd22 · 2022-01-18T18:28:27+00:00

Yep if she doesn’t reply move on. If she was actually interested she would/will get back to you. Best to not worry about it and get back to your normal routine. Definitely don’t inquire further from her. (Exception to that is only If you know her beyond casually…and even then best to let it go)

Title	Date not confirmed what do I do?
Author	UnceremoniousWaste
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 18, 2022 6:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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