One of my recent post goes into what happened, in a nutshell - got flaked, but now the girl keeps sending snaps/trying to message me, but the messages, although attempting a rearrangement, are extremely half assed, I.e. I could see her at work if I wanted to, fucking lol, because she will be busy this week, followed up by a pic of “guess who’s getting drunk this weekend” and some alcohol + drinking games being shown.

I would be lying if I said it didn’t bother me, it’s distasteful. If I do end up rearranging with her, then I’m legit just considering it to be a screening for a potential plate and that’s it, nothing serious with her, as soon as the vibe is off, I leave.

It’s fucking absurd that someone like me who doesn’t put himself out there too much and doesn’t use dating apps because of some self esteem issues has to actually see it for himself and how badly we’ve been misguided as men.