What would you say are the kep differences between the two particularly in practice. And of course, with socializing I am talking about with women. Perhaps you have a female friend, or you talking with someone you don't want to escalate with. How do you find your body language, approach, conversation and style to be different when you are talking to someone you want to escalate with aka. flirt? Do you notice any differences. Do you actively approach, talk and communicate differently? Do you make a conscious decision to say, "right, this is a girl I like, so I will talk and act differently?"