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[–]ModeratorElbynerual[M] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]SpecialPowerss 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
always play a light hearted comedy the first few dates
[–]JacobMoogberg69 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So you were super carefree and made no attempt to impress her and she was super attracted and now you are asking our advice on how to impress this girl, because that's the opposite of what you did?
[–]FunComprehensive4364 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t try to impress her, I was just being myself. I guess just being me was enough for her to want to hangout again and now she’s coming to my place. I’m trying to figure out how to play this right for a successful night.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's what I mean. You want to "play it right". Which is already in "trying too hard" land.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahh so I’m others words. Just do what I’ve already been doing. Gotcha
[–]ExtremeNihilism 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're new at this.
You're not going to watch the movie. She wants you to make a move. Don't fucking just sit there and watch the movie like a doofus. Touch her. Make a move. By god, if you finish the movie you did this wrong. I have never, once, finished a movie begun under this auspices. In fact, I can't remember a single movie I "watched" with a chick.
[–]ExtremeNihilism 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Netflix and chill always means "watch the show for 10 minutes, then begin fucking in the bedroom like animals."
[–]Valuable-Factor-5468 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You smash, that's it. That should be your entire game plan. Any plans you make will be cut short by bedroom fun so who cares honestly. Buy some wine at least.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve got plenty of wine. I’ll throw some music on talk and booze for a bit and go for it.
[–]Tall_Anywhere3705 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Forget about the movie! Get yourself some vodka and mix it with some energy drinks or cranberry pineapple or orange juice and just throw some music on and start converting with her and let the games begin!
[–]AndreKnows 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you hit the jackpot! She was clearly into you and ready for more the first night, but you were not smart enough to see it. Its very rare that the girl is giving second chance after guy was too slow to take the right actions to make it happen when she was ready.
You're super lucky that she wants to see you again, so don't focus on dinner/movie, focus on making it happen; don't procrastinate with escalating, but make it happen.
I hope to hear about you succeeding on the date!
[–]ModeratorElbynerual 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make sure dinner is something that won't give you terrible breath like dishes with garlic or onions. Don't finish the second half of the movie.
Always read the rules before posting in *any* subreddit. It will help you understand why I'm removing this post.
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