Some sort of a first-world problem there… My personal life is very busy, working 45 hours a week, taking dancing lessons, playing basketball in a local league, going to the gym, refereeing basketball games all over my state. My social life is also fun, since I often see my friends, even just for a quick beer on a Tuesday evening. And like to go to the club on weekends.

I [26M] am very happy with my life right now as I make good money, have a fit body and have a positive social circle (also a healthy family).

The paradox of this is that my life feels so fulfilling that I can’t even FIT seeing a girl, much less have a relationship, in my average schedule. Dating is dead last in my priorities. What gives purpose and happiness to my life only reinforces my single status!

And even when I happen to meet girls that seem interested, I text too inconsistently and don’t try enough to plan dates, so I rarely form any meaningful connection, whether it’s a regular girl from my dancing lessons or a rando drunk chick from the club. I often end up accidentally ghosting or being ghosted because of the “flakiness” my busy lifestyle gives me.

What would you do in my shoes, seddit?