my gf hangout 2 days ago with her male cousin on his motorcycle around the city where she lives ,I do trust her but is it normal ?

Porkincarnate · 2021-11-16T11:23:57+00:00

If she's located in Alabama, I would be wary

AK1010 · 2021-11-16T09:54:26+00:00

Follow your gut, it usually is right but just wait for her to come to you and you'll be able to tell. If your gut says not to trust what she says then follow that. Gut doesn't lead you astray.

betterme2610 · 2021-11-16T20:18:14+00:00

Only thing weird here is this post. It’s family dude. If you can’t even trust your gf with her family you have bigger issues in the relationship.

2021-11-16T11:20:39+00:00

I mean, it’s one of her relatives. What if instead of her cousin it was her uncle. Would that also be weird?

Narcan9 · 2021-11-16T12:16:46+00:00

It's 2 different things. Highly unlikely she's into incest. No reason to get jealous about a couple days with the cousin.

However, women can do shady stuff. If she's pulling away for other reasons then it's probably over. Trying to salvage things will likely be a waste of time.

If you're misreading things then that's your problem. How calibrated are you?

hecatonchires266 · 2021-11-16T08:46:07+00:00

It's her cousin. What kind of thoughts are you churning up?? You think she's doing something extraordinarily weird with him? If her family members have vouched for him as her cousin, then you don't need go think that way. When she gets back, find out what went down and why she was cold. For now, relax and wait till he returns.

trigger_them_all · 2021-11-16T14:33:38+00:00

thank you guys for you replies,

she talked to me and seems like everything is fine, my gut tells me to trust what she said.

i'll keep my guard however without accusing her of anything .

techsavyboy · 2021-11-16T11:04:21+00:00

Does it means girlfriend can't hangout with her friend in motorcycle ?

Is it something common to get into friends motorcycle jist to roam around or travel somewhere even if you are committed ?

MsBitch0157 · 2021-11-16T08:44:49+00:00

Well, it does seem weird .. I think u should b worried. But, that's just me. Haven't you ever heard of "kissing cousins" and btw the singer of that song Great Balls of Fire, Jerry Lee Lewis, married his 13yo 1st cousin. So, it's not unheard of so there's that.

norwegiandoggo · 2021-11-16T09:23:23+00:00

Is it normal to want to ride around on a motorcycle with a cousin? I don't see why not. Are you worried she's cheating with on you with a family member? That seems pretty crazy in my eyes. But then again, I don't know your girlfriend. If you think you can't trust her then that's obviously a big problem. You can't have a relationship without trust. Of all people to consider a threat to your relationship, I think you should place her family members the lowest on that list of threats. So if even this makes you uncomfortable then I think you have issues. Either you're jealous or have trust issues or you have seen some other red flags that she can't be trusted. Either way, it's not great.

jonathanknavarrete · 2021-11-16T13:14:15+00:00

3 points to consider.

1) whatever she does is a reflection of you, how much on your purpose are you? Do you have frame in the relationship or she does?

2) if you are worrying about the cousin, imagine if it's a friend, or a colleague, guys tend to "guard" That's biological, however, if she see you get jealous she will do it more, however, clear boundaries expressed in a non violent communication.

3) Most important it's a work on yourself and your relationship with your own emotions bro, you have to be grounded enough to be okay if she leaves the relationship, and it's on you keep growing as a man despite feeling bad and keep striving towards your purpose in life.

Check the books • The way of the superior man. • The power of Now. • The tactical guide to women.

SweetChocolate02 · 2021-11-16T14:49:09+00:00

May that’s not really her cousin

mwelothebest · 2021-11-16T15:47:16+00:00

I mean it’s her cousin. There family. Unless theres a reason for you to be suspicious then I would just leave it. If she’s messing around with her cousins that’s a shame on her

KartezDonovan · 2021-11-19T03:19:47+00:00

If you don't trust her with her cousin, get rid of her. Just saying. 🤷🏿‍♂️

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