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[–]combatdeux 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you not sleep with her too? Do you think she's feeling that way about you? Just break up with her if you're going to analyze every little detail to death. You won't have any fun that way.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you want a woman who likes sex or not?
If you want a woman that loves to fuck, don't be surprised if she fucks on the first date. If you don't want a woman with a high sex drive, don't worry about her waiting a while.
Just because she might have casual sex when she's single, doesn't mean she isn't monogamous in relationships.
If she makes you happy, then get out of your own fucking way and stop trying to sabotage a good thing.
[–]letsgetrandy 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She doesnt have alot of casual sex... this isnt like her.
Said every woman ever. It's a lie they tell you because they're really trying to convince themselves.
kind of feel like I should be worried with how quick and easy it was
Nonsense. You like her and you are enjoying yourself, don't overthink it and ruin that.
[–]Spinuchi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True and true.. I kind of believe her because she has social anxiety and is kind of the ugly duckling that grew up hot. She just seems like she doesnt give herself the opportunity to meet guys.. But also she is sexy af and i have a hard time believing that guys arent coming at her left and right.
Also I agree I am overthinking this situation because im not used to pulling a sexy girl like this so easily.. But also she seems to be into me so far, the sex has been amazing.. And I have the opportunity to just keep going. Step 1 is down, now the goal is to not to fuck this up for myself haha
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A man takes a woman on several dates, pays for each and every one, constantly impresses her wjth his job, accomplishments and DHV stories. He takes her away on a romantic weekend to a hotel that costs hundreds of dollars. The woman, after initially saying she is not ready yet and that she usually waits weeks for the right guy, finally that he has worked for it enough and has sex with him and the man feels that he has earned it. After all he worked so hard and spent all that money.
Another man meets a girl at a bar. They talk, she likes him for who he is and makes a decision right than and there to have sex with him with no expectation of anything in return except some good time. She goes home wjth said guy that night, but in the morning he wakes up and concludes "since I'm the type of guy who will not belong to a club that would have me as a member, there is only one conclusion here - this girl is a slut because she liked me for who I am instead of my money, ability to take her on dates or willingness to shower her with gifts."
And that my guy is modern dating.
[–]Spinuchi -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess the thing is, I've been wanting to be the second guy for so long and have been working towards it.. That it feels surreal to be there now. This girls is probably the sexiest ive ever been with. And we had sex 7 times in 2 days.. All of which was the best sex ive ever had, and she had multiple orgasms too.. It just feels to good to be true.. But a others have said I m just gonna roll with it and have fun
[–]JacobMoogberg69 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your entire life you've been conditioned to believe that a law a man you cannot possibly ne good enough for a woman to like for who you are and have sex with you without any kind of monetary exchange. Think about it. Every boy gets the message early on that if he wants a beautiful he must work for it in one way or another. Have you ever heard the phrase "only rich guys get to date women like that" or "she only dates jocks", etc.
So most men grow up feeling inadequate and not good enough for a woman UNLESS they work super hard to earn it.
[–]ijustlovebreasts 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it’s the end goal then what difference does it make?
[–]Orange-of-Cthulhu 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No it's a big green flag. The stuff that happens in between you say hi for the first time and the sex is just postponement - girls feel right away if they'd like to have sex with you, like within minutes. Then social rules and practical matters make us postpone it.
[–]spotlightonyounow1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Congrats to you for having amazing sex with her. You proved that it's easier than everybody else make it seem. You're a real man bro 💪
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