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[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Maybe you lost her. If she doesn’t respond it doesn’t matter just let it go. No reason to every get angry about a girl. You’re a grown ass man who chose to give away your time to a stranger. Take ownership and stop blaming others.
Yeah you fucked up. Never choose a girl you barely know over your priorities. She could probably sense your neediness. It’s not a good look for men or women to constantly be available.
I also think you played it wrong. You over pursued her and didn’t keep the tension. As soon as you could sense the interest drop you take a step back and give her some space. Stay busy with school/life and message her with longer delays. Focus on your life first. Then you hit her with a simple hey I want to check out (cool spot) at (date and time) I thought it would fun if you join me
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[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That mindset is garbage. Throw it away. You say whatever you want on the phone. Be your unapologetic self. If she loses interest then so be it. You move on to someone that likes you, not the careful lines you rehearsed before she calls you.
Take this lesson you learned and stop giving people your time that they haven’t earned. Maybe she got bored with you because you were always there for her neediness. She saw you more as a friend she could call about her problems, not a man that’s busy with his goals.
Take ownership and go get the next one!
[–]The-Sea-Warden 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yup it’s hard to keep pretty girls from dating apps interested. They have a lot of options from the apps. You’ve gotta kinda sweep them off their feet and make cool plans if you want them to stick around. Live and learn. Also.. never send long texts about it “not working out.” Just let it be and move on.
[–]Shadow__Account -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sound like you are better off paying a prostitute, you can see what their body looks like on beforehand and they won’t waste your precious time, they are very efficient timewise.
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