For years i had my couple of bp friends and many female friends which i was their emotional tampon and validation dispenser. Ended up with mostly girls and barley any dudes to hangout with.

Working my way out, cutting contact with all these women, i find it hard to relate, contact and befriend guys. I have my bp friends but i want new company and social circles.

You would say "socialize", but im used to socialize with females and therefore - harder to do so with men.

So whats your basic tips on adding new dudes to my reborning social circles? Any good reads would also be appreciated.