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ConstantineBarca · 2021-09-06T14:37:07+00:00

You don’t shit where you eat, this is not a wise move and please don’t buy her flowers and gifts especially since you’re not even dating her yet. Some of the advice on here is abysmal

RProgrammerMan · 2021-09-06T15:48:57+00:00

Not at work, too risky. Romantic pursuits are high risk high reward and you don’t want to put your career in jeopardy. It’s also unprofessional and puts her in an awkward position because she’s paid to be nice to you. You need to find something outside of work that lets you meet women. Just enjoy the experience interacting with her at work and use it as practice for future interactions.

RepresentativeEmu636 · 2021-09-06T14:18:45+00:00

Don’t shit where you eat ? Especially since you’re an intern

TheGoldStandard35 · 2021-09-06T14:31:13+00:00

I have no experience with this, but I feel like a lot of older women might more mature and flattered. Just be respectful and honest.

A little weird at work though

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-09-06T14:52:39+00:00

Lose some weight

Confidence will soar

iceberg6080 · 2021-09-06T17:10:03+00:00

i would suggest jst esscalate things and get laid... wouldn't be wise to backout....cause man don't have regret afterwards that i had the opportunity but i stepped back bcuz of age or whatsoever..... jst go for it.... & fuck those who are ruining yur intentions... if things don't work out dont befriended her.... there might be someone yu might get to meet & things turn out to be great.....

DubDeuceInThisBih · 2021-09-06T15:19:54+00:00

It will get awkward. Especially in the middle east. I'm in America and it isn't even the best call here. Only makes work a more uncomfortable place in my experience.

IBeSomebooty · 2021-09-06T15:20:51+00:00

Mature women are great, if she's older than you, has more experience, there's nothing wrong with it, I dated someone 20 years older, my friend who has cancer is 50+ and dating a 23 yr old, i was in a dating program where dudes in their 50s date girls 30 yrs and younger. its no big deal, that shit really happens. it doesnt matter about their kids, what matters is your frame (i go for what I want, and I like mature woman, because other women dont interest me, etc.)

Cascadiana88 · 2021-09-07T00:08:05+00:00

Always follow the Golden Rule: Don’t shit where you eat.

backfromyou · 2021-09-06T14:38:03+00:00

You sound in scarcity af and catching oneitis for a woman who isn't even that hot, start spinning way more plates

chris_chris42 · 2021-09-06T20:52:32+00:00

The fact that its your workplace is FAR more troublesome than the age difference.

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Date	September 6, 2021 1:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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