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[–]PatientAssociation62 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't "display" or "demonstrate" those qualities, you need to BE a high value man. You need to BECOME those qualities. Woman pick up on that stuff far more than you think. I spent some time working on my confidence and being more assertive recently.
This girl I work with, hadn't seen me in a while. I saw her again after I started making those changes. She saw me walk by, and she didn't just turn her head, she snapped it around as she saw me. It's frightening how well some women can pick up your "vibe".
[–]okletsg000 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can’t become rock star or change your self over a night. That’s for sure. To become a better person and growth mindset it will take time until it will sit deep down into your head. Then everything will feels natural. Vigilance and consistency is the key.
I have been in this game or old pua field since 2012 but sometimes in the life you lose track and question about yourself if you really have those traits when you want to check if everything is under your control. That’s why I asked.
[–]Agreable_Actuator84 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I remember correctly Geoffrey Miller had a few books out that addressed this directly. Check out mating mind book. I assume there are others. Maybe models by mark manson. Youtuber apex mindset has some good vids worth watching.
But how to demonstrate those qualities in any given situation to a particular woman is contextual and nuanced. And nothing has 100% success rate. You will need to spend time developing your best self (lifting, developing personal clothing style, learning and practicing game, etc) and also spend time just getting out there and talking to women, experiencing rejection and success, and learning from each.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being dominant is a simple as never asking “what do you want to do tonight?” Women are so sick of men who are too afraid to make decisions. It’s takes very little adjusting to go from weak to dominant.
Weak: do you want to go to dinner? Strong: I’m going to this amazing brewery for dinner and I want your company.
Weak: what should we do next? Strong: after this let’s pop over to (name of wherever you want to take her), I’m going to show you something that’ll blow your mind.
I’m general ask her opinion less when it comes to planning and she’ll love you for it. Women are begging us to be me who take control. The second you understand that, everything changes.
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