Girl with boyfriend has Snapchatted me for 25 days straight but it’s not getting anywhere

mallardcove · 2018-04-11T13:42:38+00:00

25 days with no escalation.... congrats on being her validation machine/orbiter.

McVaghunter · 2018-04-11T13:47:32+00:00

Holly shit! 25 fucking days?! What the fuck happened to texting for logistics? You don't see this guy texting a girl for 25 days without fucking her.

You're probably giving her all the validation she needs, and validation for women is like sex for men, why the fuck would she want to see you now that she has already gotten what she wanted?

left3arright3ar · 2018-04-11T14:27:30+00:00

Get some self respect, she fucked your roommate and you want the leftovers? Go outside and game someone else Christ

MattyAnon · 2018-04-11T15:44:20+00:00

but it’s the same shit every day

Don't respond for a day.

Next day shake it up. "That photo sucks, I can hardly see your tits".

I don’t know if these are bulk group message snaps or what.

Probably not if ignoring her causes you more attention.

Be more sexual, escalate.

If she doesn't go for it, she's just getting free validation. Ignore and move on.

Listen, I only want to snap if it gets me somewhere.

So why have you been doing this for 25 days? What you say and what you do is not matching up.

What's really happening is this: "I only want to snap if it goes somewhere, but if it doesn't that's fine too I'll just keep on validating and hoping because this is my best option in life".

Get more options, escalate on this one, and ditch if it doesn't work. Either way, don't play this dumb game that benefits her and not you.

damaged_goods420 · 2018-04-11T13:34:39+00:00

Push for a hangout with her 1 on 1

Escalate assuming you get the chance to

If she isn't receptive, drop it like it's hot

no_condoments · 2018-04-11T14:14:28+00:00

I don’t know if these are bulk group message snaps or what.

Yes, they are group snapchats. She probably sends them to all of her friends and you are the one awkwardly responding as if they were just for you. It's like seeing her posts on Facebook and always commenting on them. Orbiter to the max.

Keep your snapchat if you want, but dont respond to group snaps with mundane comments like "nice photo!😋"

ProMathlete · 2018-04-11T14:48:33+00:00

Just start turning the conversations sexual (if there are any actual conversations)

She's been loose before and is probably being loose with other people. If you want nudes joke about nipple rings and if she doesn't have them tell her to prove it. Go from there.

You really have nothing to lose, this girl is a validation junkie. Don't give it to her.

cl3537 · 2018-04-11T15:16:48+00:00

Welcome to Orbiterville, Populate: You

BusterVadge · 2018-04-11T15:00:53+00:00

Are there any tricks here....

Yes, read the sidebar. You should know what an orbiter is.

Retstortion · 2018-04-11T14:06:03+00:00

Queer

0x9A30D7C49714D98000 · 2018-04-11T13:36:59+00:00

Delete your snapchat and text for logistics only. Don't make the mistake of becoming the invisible tamagotchi pet living in her phone. Ignore until she shows some real interest, and I'm not talking about sending you nude snapchats that you get to see for 5 seconds (or whatever it is).

zboo1h · 2018-04-11T18:51:54+00:00

Every time she gets what she wants and you don't, shes fucking you. You're a little time ho. You're her little attention slut. How's that feel, little male attention/validation whore?

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-04-11T22:06:06+00:00

I can think of about 8 different reasons as to why this is and none of which are good lol just move on.

If she wants to meet up and have sex at all she will message you and get the ball rolling herself.

[deleted] · 2018-04-12T00:38:29+00:00

You are her orbiter. Emotional tampon. Since you havent constantly escalates to the next level she has put you in the friend zone.

Check out Asian Playboy’s ABCs of escalation.

mcr00sterdota · 2018-04-12T05:00:52+00:00

You're an orbiter dude.

[deleted] · 2018-04-12T05:27:25+00:00

Not going to lie I laughed reading this title.

You've been orbiting her for a month. Read the sidebar or the first rational male book.

[deleted] · 2018-04-11T17:06:20+00:00

Delete, block and ghost

Title	Girl with boyfriend has Snapchatted me for 25 days straight but it’s not getting anywhere
Author	HelpMeOutBrosephs
Upvotes	14
Comments	21
Date	April 11, 2018 1:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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