Im no Puritan but I avoid casual sex for the most part because I inevitably end up feeling toward whoever I sleep with - in order for me to want to sleep with them I need attraction physically and emotionally, add to that a very intimate experience and I have no idea how some guy can just push them through the door and say have a nice life.

Even establishing from the get go that something will be purely a one night romance seems a bit cold/unnatural to me.

I know this is also how relationships begin, but I know a guy who has slept with over a hundred women but never the same one twice - he’s got more issues than time magazine but it’s a pretty common scenario.

Would you continue seeing someone if you connected well? Do you feel that only being open to one night stands makes things feel a bit transactional?