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[–]lurker7777777lol 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She already told you she wants to message through the app before giving out private information. If your "flow" includes ignoring that, you probably won't get very far.
[+]meogdon -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Lol have a good day young lady
[–]vfhd 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well the lady is right, she has no trust on you so she can't give or take personal number
[–]meogdon -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I agree she has a point but how do I avoid giving her too much information if I should message through the app?
[–]vfhd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you do not intend to share then why date go buy a prostitute and hook up lol
[–]meogdon -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t say intend to share I said share “too much information”. Can you read?
[–]Safe-Investigator271 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's right tho fam
[–]meogdon -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]No-Platform-2184 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don't understand this fear of "giving too much info"
[–]ImClemFandango 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women do. Not every guy is a creep/stalker but EVERY WOMAN has had an experience with one.
[–]meogdon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Would you spill all your guts out on a first encounter?
[–]No-Platform-2184 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but what does that have to do with "getting to know each other a bit better"? She wants to just talk to you a little bit to see if you have at least a tiny connection. All you need to do is find a common interest and talk about that, not spill your guts.
[–]totalwarwiser 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
If i.am proud of myself, why not?
She probabily perceived that you are afraid of being honest, which is a major red flag for a woman. That is probabily because you feel.ashamed of something
The deal with these apps is that she should feel you are rating her as much as she is rating you. Because that would mean you have options instead of being desperate to go out with whatever woman is willing to go out with you.
Most women want to judge you before deciding they want to show you their life. There are a lot of crazy dudes and women out there.
[–]meogdon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you would rather spend a hundred hours on a dating app texting huh? U seem to have alot of time on your hands
[–]totalwarwiser 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I usually transition to another app after 3 to 4 days and to a real date in about 7 to 14 days.
If you cant talk to a person over an app why would it be easier in real life?
Also I dont have a lot of free time so id rather talk over text and decide which women are interesting instead of seting dates with women that dont have the qualities I want and waste the few oportunities I have of going out. I can text when I am at work or during the week.
Btw Im looking for a relationship so im looking for honesty and a person which would fit me, not to get laid with as many women as possible.
[–]OldFriend3089 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
OP sounds like he’s hiding something he’s guilty about lol. Just get to know her dude, you don’t have to tell your life story.
Apparently you haven’t heard of the “Too much information” danger🤔
Dude, if someone had a genuine concern for their own safety, would you respect it (even if you didn’t agree with it) or tell them to ignore their gut instinct because you (someone they just “met”) knows better? Which answer would maybe make someone feel more comfortable when you’re getting to know them?
[–]RhabarberJack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What kind of information are you afraid to give out?
[–]SerfsUpp 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course she’s going to be hesitant, you’ve sent 2 messages and now you’re asking for her fb and her number? It’s a bit quick in my opinion
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