I have known somebody for a few years and recently they started messaging me talking about how they wanted to get together. I listened to the conversation to see where things would go between us and everything they said sounded good. Yesterday she put the idea to me of us getting together and I was very much open to this, then complications arose and something about the interaction wasn't the right time. I had to push everything back. It was difficult because in theory, she was a perfectly good person to try a relationship with. In reality, not so much. I think me and this person were looking for different things.

I am sitting here regretting me rejecting seeing her, but even still it doesn't appear to be a good situation so if she decided she wanted to do things, she would have to be completely sure and not waste anytime about getting from where she is to where I am.

Any ideas on how to help with this? Thanks