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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I don't really have much of an environment to hangout with others in my vacation area,
Is this just an excuse though? No girls around?
Because gaming girls on vacation is one of the easiest things you can do - and way higher odds then sliding into some random girls DM.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Need more details to give a proper answer:
How comfortable are you talking to random guys out in public?
Not in a sexual way - just normal conversation between two humans?
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[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make it easy on yourself..
"Hey I'm new in town, I know about X and Y tourist attractions, is there anything else that can't be missed?"
Even if you've lived there all your life - just do it - you need experience having conversations with girls.
I like this because most people are proud of their city and are usually very open to help out tourists with places to go, places see, places to eat etc.
And then if you feel comfortable enough, ask her out.. or just friend zone the girl if you're really, really inexperienced with being around girls.
Go out there and do this with 100 girls..
After that, you're probably have the confidence to approach girls for more dating purposes.
[–]twistedtowel -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What are the best vacations for gaming women specifically?
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Cruises - or go to a country where your SMV is much higher.
[–]j2bbt238 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
whats smv
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sexual Market Value.
[–]j2bbt238 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ohh okay
[–]kingpoonslayer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There are a lot of factors you left out that are crucial to knowing if this is an actual viable option or if you’re completely wasting your time. First and absolutely foremost do you have a large social media presence with cool pictures? If not immediately scrap this idea because it will not work. You’re better of on a dating app. Even then if you’ve never dated a girl or are not used to talking to girls DMing them won’t make it easier. Any halfway decent looking girl has dozens of guys in her dms begging for attention.
[–]kingpoonslayer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
DMing is not a good place to start with no experience. Hard to give concrete advice without knowing more about you. I don’t know your experience with women, but I would just say first and foremost build yourself
health( be in shape, eat well, exercise) wealth ( college, career, etc) then relashionships. ( Friends, hobbies, girls)
I’ll give you generic advice.
If your looks are shitty ( fashion, acne, haircut) or your socially anxious or you’re depressed or have no friends, etc , fix all of these problems first.
Stay off these subs and take all advice with a grain of salt a lot of people on here give terrible advice. What works for someone may not work for you. You also don’t wanna end up in mental masturbation and decision paralysis, best to be in the moment.
Confidence is built through repeated success, the best way to do that is to get out and actually talk to girls, but I personally suggest talking to everyone and getting comfortable interacting with people.
You’re not gonna get good with women by reading shit the only way to get a girl is to talk to them.
In terms of talking to a girl the only advice I can give is that you are the prize you’re seeing if she would be a good fit for your life. You should leave every interaction with a girl you’re interested in a way were you’re sure that your intentions were stated and they either give you a fuck yes or a fuck no.
Rejection is your friend and is way better than regret.
Don’t be too attached to the outcome and always remember Theyre more options (these two are hard to internalize without actually experiencing it. )
This is more or less what every good post will say.
Absolute most important thing is action don’t take the easy way out and complain your not getting girls if you’re not talking/ have never talked to girls gotta do the work. Whatever you choose to do the most importantly try to have fun with it this may suck at times but dating is meant to be fun .
Oh and forget about online shit,
Obviously still something im going through but this is what I’ve learned.
[–]Lemon8007 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
so if this is your first time taking her or anyone out, in your life? damn i envy you. its not gonna be hard, she’s not gonna expect anything fabulous or spectacular so, don’t waste it all on the first date. i’ll give you a few things to remember about her. so she agreed to let you take her out. and what seemed like a simple decision, theres a lot of thought on her part that went into making her decision. tip 1. dont remind her what she already knows for example, if you express to her how beautiful she is, dont constantly repeat it to her because she knows that u feel that way. also, dont tell stories of you and how glorious u were wen u beat someone up or how your intelligence shut down a professor or how youre the best at a certain thing, because chances are, that not why they on the date, so rule of thumb, talk about her because even if you already know everything thing about because u creeped and looked her up, the only interesting topic is her. this is her confirmation date. shes paying in “time” her time to be with u to make sure she bought the right car. be funny, tell a joke a story of u messing up, then ask her about her fav color n why thats her color. it has to be all about her but to a certain extent. dont be creepy. tip 2. etiquette, from now till your date, google etiquette shit, everything, how to order a meal how to wave down the waitress dont let it be known that youre an amateur. in her mind, youre an alpha and a gentlen kind alpha. google the singer neyo, hes got swagger and all about class. emulate him, hes a good one to copy, but anly as reference. tip 3. dont creep her out. know that on this date u might not kiss her maybe if u can pick up her signle but u aint having sex so don’t think about or mention otherwise go straight home. u can stare at her but not in a creepy way. practice your smile. make sure its the adoring kind of smile you give your baby sister. thats to start her emotions about u. if u look at her in adoration she will adore u too. if she asks, what are u staring at, thats a test or anything in that category. your answer is final tip 3 you’re looking at her smile or trying to engrave into memory so u can see it wen u get home. and her eyes. google eye compliments smile compliments and those can be corny and wen she says it is tell her your pick up line. so three easy ass things confirmation her thoughts of u, dont remind her wat she knows, class make sure have, and dont be creepy. but all that aside n u wanna get laid, lmk, i have plan b
[–]Lemon8007 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
my advice on texting is to text only important things like where to meet or what time to meet and so forth
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