Ok so first, I'm not an experienced guy, I haven't had a lot of conquests. In fact, I'm a 22 years old still virgin guy. I'm mostly virgin by choice and I've had opportunities that I refused. I'm trying to find someone to connect with, instead of trying to satisfy my craving for flesh.

BUT, I started traveling almost 2 months ago through Eastern Europe, and as I'm writing this I'm stuck in a train station in the middle of nowhere in Romania, because my train got canceled. But it was a good time to reflect a bit about what I gained from this journey.

The goals of my journey were mostly, meeting new people, discovering new cultures/ways of life and learning more about myself.

And I can say that those goals were achieved!

I improved my cold approach by approaching strangers (especially girls) asking them recommendations about the city, hanged out with them, did tinder dates, improved my confidence, my communication skills...

Well this trip changed me for the better. Hence why, if you struggle to find girls or guys in your area, struggle to find hobbies, struggle about your life... spare a little bit of money, and go somewhere else for some time ! The good thing about traveling is that no one knows you. You can be whoever you want. You don't care about judgements as you'll only be there temporarily !

Here, it's often mentioned to read books, have a lot of theoretical knowledge. While I can't argue this, I still believe that there's nothing better than traveling to learn about others and about yourself.

PS : if you travel and love backpacking, look at the Couchsurfing app. THIS IS NOT A DATING APP, but this is a really good way to enter different social circles rapidly.

That's it for me, I hope that I gave you this little spark needed to go out and see the world !