Had an intense make-out with a girl in a club on Saturday -- tounge-in-cheek kissing and full contact dance and grinding. I was moderately drunk. Should I consider this progress or am I getting ahead of myself?

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2021-08-10T19:36:30+00:00

Keep up the good work

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-10T20:13:36+00:00

I guess it's progress since you haven't even touched a woman in 2.5 years.

Next time try to pull them back to your place for sex.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-08-10T20:48:05+00:00

To a point, yes this is progress. Couple things: to women, bars are a place of "make believe". A place where rules get suspended and a place where they can act contrary to their "regular" persona. A place that has no consequences for their actions as it can be written off as a "drunken thing". A woman kissing you or groping you or making out with you in a bar doesn't necessarily mean you've reached high echelons of seduction it just means you found a way to give them what they wanted in that time and that space. This is where dudes get totally perplexed about women flaking on them the next day. It's because it wasn't more than what it was in that bar. Lastly, it can be easy to stay in the bar being "make out dude" and going back night after night, but that's all you're doing. Progress beyond that by learning push/pull with your kissing, touching & verbal game so that she wants to hook up with you outside of the bar scene. You're on the right path.

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