how to be unpredictable

3d_truth · 2018-04-13T06:58:54+00:00

Don't adhere to societel norms. Don't worry what people will think of you. Caring about others opinions of you and following the rules of society forces you into the role of predictable boring robot.

Mr_Badass · 2018-04-13T05:14:48+00:00

Learn to be a " spontaneous speaker". A spontaneous speaker knows how to improvise and say the right thing at the right time.

http://www.smartbrief.com/original/2017/04/spontaneous-speaking-5-second-strategy-improve-delivery

liberty1127 · 2018-04-13T08:45:05+00:00

Just do and say as you please. I know personally I have a big personality and I say shit sometimes that has people wondering if I really said that thought outloud, but no one ever questions me and they respect my opinion if I voice it.

Amarke · 2018-04-13T15:29:37+00:00

Make your decisions based on a throw of dice.

exscionewhuman · 2018-04-13T10:28:02+00:00

Life is unpredictable enough. It provides you the material, all you have to do is be present and honest and share yourself openly. Hell just by you being you, there is no one else like you. That doesn't mean it's easy though. It's a lot easier to seek comfort and predictability and momentary gratification. Your fat friend who stays at home playing games. You know what he's doing. You know where he is going.

That dude that simply shows up to things... well you never know where that guy is going. If he is honest too? Both with himself and others, even if he is feeling bad? He's going to learn very quickly.

The hard part isn't thinking things out and being super creative, the hard part is just showing up and letting yourself be awkward and a beginner, and owning it. Being ok with it. Everyone you've ever seen was a beginner once, too.

Title	how to be unpredictable
Author	thompcody
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	April 13, 2018 4:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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