I don't mean it in the exaggerated jock, demeaning type of behaviour kind of way. I mean a man who is outcome-independant. A man who cares about his values and doesn't worry too much about his "Sexual market value" or where fits in the status realm in social interactions because he finds internal peace within his integrity and in following his values.

An example would be a man who simply follows intuition on what is right and wrong. He might follow a career path which is important to him and turn down a path which theoretically would increase his sexual market value on paper. He's values a small social circle of good friends despite being socially suave and knowing that having more social contacts raises raises his status and thus his chances with women. A man who prefers to do whatever he wants and whose goal isn't to have sex with many partners although that would theoretically increase his market value as he would gain more reference experience and "proof" for his self-esteem that he is a high value man. His success with women is direct proof of that value. But what if that man doesn't really attribute value to that ? Will that man come just as charismatic as a guy who's more succesful on paper (more sexual experience, more success in their career).

So I wonder how much these inner convictions translate into his interactions with women and other people around him