So there’s this girl that I’ve known for about 7 months and we’ve been good friends since. She’s always had an interest in me, always flirty with me and touchy but I haven’t really made moves because I met her before redpill and you can guess the rest.. anyways she’s still super flirty but I don’t quite understand why she replies 10min later or more to my texts but when I’m with her she’s glued to her phone like any other millennial (this is college btw) texting people, and today it happened to be a guy and she was instantly replying to everything, she’s never done this before and he seemed to be an attractive guy with some confidence from his look (she’s from another country and he was too, they go to different colleges.)

Here’s what’s bugging me, I’m trying to tease and not give her all the attention she wants as it says on the redpill everywhere but it doesn’t seem to be going as well as if suspect. Like near the end of tonight we were studying and we were going to watch a movie together after she finished her assignment but she just kept texting him and wasn’t doing the homework at all so then I just told her I had to go because she wasn’t gonna finish anytime soon because she was texting. She just said I’ll do it later so we could watch it now but I just said no and said I’m gonna go and she kinda was sad because of it. I just didn’t want to be the blue pilled guy who waited for her to finish like any other guy would do it felt pretty good.

So what have you guys have to say about this? And to note she’s not a oneitis really for me, I mean there’s plenty of other girls I talk to and such it’s just that I had to say something about this incident. It also may be that I’m really playful with her and not “manly” enough to get enough respect or something like that. And I can say I’m jealous of that guy who’s getting instant replies all the time recently and it’s obvious, I would just love opinions of how you act in these situations if they were to happen to you.