There’s a girl in my swimming club but she is like a year or two older than me. All her friends Is older than me too but she is hot. Should I just accept that it’s not fit or try to get to know her? We are ok friends like we hang out sometimes but we aren’t best friends

Eunner · 2021-07-02T15:22:08+00:00

you gave pretty limited info here but I’ll try my best to help. A year or two older, repeat that to yourself. A year or two older.

Is that really a reason to not approach a beautiful woman? Do you think lions don’t mate with one of their lion fuck friends because she’s a year or two older? Of course not.

That may have sounded like a bunch of nonsense but the point I’m trying to get across is go for it. Nothing is stopping you except, well, you.

Something I would always tell people in my boxing class is that the only thing stopping you from getting from point A to their face is fear. It seems you have the same problem. You’re afraid of possible rejection.

What you gotta do is want her more than you want to not be rejected. It’s all just a confidence issue. Have some faith in yourself man. Other than that go get em man. I’ve got so much faith in you!

Dutchcat1077 · 2021-07-02T15:39:15+00:00

Dude leave her alone. Rule 1. Don’t try for women you’ll have to see every day. Keep the swim club about swimming. Leave the girl’s there alone beyond being friendly.

AelfredRex · 2021-07-02T20:53:20+00:00

Does she show any interest in you? That's key. If she's not giving you any receptive vibes, don't bother. If she is, just go with the flow.

SpohCbmal · 2021-07-03T04:42:44+00:00

In my eyes personally it does not matter how much older they are than you. If you both are OK with that, like each other, than its really a non-issue.

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