Thoughts on this post?

maplemario · 2021-06-30T16:03:27+00:00

This is something you can absolutely do if you’re not actually trying to get with girls. I’ve been here, all about the mystique of being the guy who doesn’t do it like everyone else, etc. It’s not worth thinking like this, like you’re a burden on the girls you meet. It’s actually borderline toxic and self disrespectful.

revente · 2021-06-30T07:54:31+00:00

Nope, this is some dumb, harmful reasoning.

Girls are either interested/not interested or on a fence.

Interested ones will interact with you no matter what you do.

Uninterested ones won’t interact with you no matter what you do.

Ones on a fence, may be receptive to you leading, but won’t suddently start to lead only because you’ve chosen a polite option. That’s too much effort, and girls these days fucking hate making effort. Why make an effort texting some dude she isn’t convinced about when she can pop on tinder and get thousands other willing dudes?

Unless you are only approaching girls way below your league, always take the number by yourself.

Frankly if a ‚girl that wouldn’t give you her number but at the same time gladly would take yours and then text you’ even exist, you don’t wan’t to date her. A girl that sees all men as potential abusers isn’ta gf material.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-06-30T08:24:36+00:00

Tltr all, but based on title- both wrong. ASKING for that is wrong itself.

Give a reason (value) to make her want to meetup w ya. Then suggest a date, where u both are gona have fun (dont even call it a date). And # thing is easiest part: “K put ur digits here so we plan”.

Pro tip: u can say “Hand me ur phone for a sec” text urself “nice to meet ya and excited to ride that penguins soon, handsome crush” or simply “see ya soon handsome crush”.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-06-30T15:35:21+00:00

Always get her number - ALWAYS

Title	Thoughts on this post?
Author	Existing-Pair-
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	June 30, 2021 7:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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