Hey guys, I was feeling down recently about all the complicated aspects of seduction, when I started remembering the simplicity of my first 2 “approaches” even before I started looking into seduction when I was 16 or 17. All I knew was that fuckboys seemed to get girls, so I tried to act like one, instead of the nervous and goofy dude I usually was.

I remember (both times) just looking at the girl with a bit of a devious look as if I was trying to project my sexual intent (like relaxed eyes with a slight grin). And I also talked slowly and avoided sounding goofy, excited, or high pitched (even though I was extremely nervous).

Those 2 times I was able to make the girls blush and successfully get their contact info (and I remember the first time was in front of a bunch of my friends so I felt especially like a pimp).

All this to say, I feel like sometimes just the fact that you’re a dude who likes a girl is attractive, and if you’re an average/normal dude, that could be all it takes. In other words, don’t be afraid to show your intent!

P.S. I even told the second girl “I think you fine as hell” which, looking back, was extremely uncalibrated, but we were isolated, I was experimenting, and I tried to say it in a sexy sounding way, so it made her blush pretty heavily.

Edit: I wanted to include this video to kind of show what I mean. Now this guy isn’t even smooth or especially good looking, but he just lays his interest on the table, and some attractive girls become interested: https://youtu.be/Q8YuPjYDWO0 (Interactions at 3:43 and 8:12)