If you struggle with attracting women and/or dating, please read this!

TheMailmanic · 2021-05-28T01:04:51+00:00

It would be nice if there were more posts by guys that were actually bedding beautiful women instead of people just giving advice who are as confused as the rest of us

AbeTheBabe423 · 2021-05-28T00:55:50+00:00

Doesn’t have to be a fat chick, ugly chick, etc. Go up to a girl who isn’t your preference (ex: approach a tall woman if you’re into short women) and you’ll be amazed how open you’ll be to the idea.

Believe me, I’ve talked to girls who I’ve turned down or simply ignored since they weren’t considered pretty in my books or were considered out of my league by others, but my perception changed. So I agree with this post.

And it’s not about settling for fat girls like someone commented, it’s about checking your ego (in a weird sense). But if we are keeping it real, a fit person is usually attractive when compared to someone who is unfit or fat, so I can see why OP used this example.

And Yes you shouldn’t see someone being out of your league since you want to perceive yourself as being the best option, but it’s okay to accept some girls are unattainable.

_myvanitythrowaway_ · 2021-05-28T01:44:07+00:00

Funny you say this, in my experience, I find that the average and below looking girls are less receptive and more standoffish than the attractive girls who are much more receptive and flirtatious.

But that's just my experience.

2021-05-28T00:42:46+00:00

Thank you for this post.

2021-05-28T00:56:28+00:00

i wouldnt say approach the fat chick lol, but look for girls that you're equal or slightly ahead of in terms of how your life is going. i think you always wanna be at least a few steps ahead of the girl you're dating. kind of a weird dynamic if you approach girls who have their shit together far more than you do

TheMailmanic · 2021-05-28T01:58:38+00:00

Why would I approach a girl I don't find attractive?

mfposgbcs · 2021-05-28T00:46:11+00:00

Lol no..never settle for fat girls. Also, there are no leagues, if you think a woman is out of your league, then you're thinking you're no good for her, that she's better than you. You dont wanna think that way, ever.

jzadlv180 · 2021-05-28T02:06:16+00:00

I disagree with this. Flirting a girl you don't like isn't going to make you a good person.

I agree that some man have unrealistic expectations BUT, it's more because guy want a really hot girl without nothing to give, without being funny, in shape, or something. People should go for what they want and if they feel unworthy to it, they should improve themselves, they need to put effort.

I said it again, nobody it's going to thing good of you by approach someone because everyone overlook her.

Ilikesmellymomass · 2021-05-28T00:43:03+00:00

That's good advice. Thanks man.

Far-Personality63 · 2021-05-28T01:12:18+00:00

No matter how you perceive things, it's not settling. Whatever you do is only expanding your opportunities to achieve what you desire.

hwillis891 · 2021-05-28T01:42:12+00:00

So let me get this straight: instead of finding ways to improve myself and make myself more attractive to the women that I want, you are saying to subvert those expectations and get with women I’m not attracted to just because they might be the girl that I want.

If this ain’t some sorry bullshit loser talk I don’t know what else is. When I had sex with my first real hot girl I was so excited I literally fucked her eight times. It was fucking magical. I fucked a sexy chick at the beach and I felt so good it was awesome. It’s all because I made myself BETTER. I didn’t just give up or grovel to women I don’t want, I rose to the level of women I WANT. What is the use of living if you have that kind of loser talk? Get outta here.

2021-05-28T01:58:58+00:00

Yeah this advice is kinda lame. If you're a 4/10 guy who's out of shape and socially awkward, start pumping iron, improve your diet, learn how to be chill and funny, make some friends, put a smile on, surround yourself with different people, get cooler hobbies, etc etc and now maybe those hot girls u jerk off to won't seem so out of place. Don't hit up fat chicks they need to do all that stuff too. It is a perspective though I get that

Title	If you struggle with attracting women and/or dating, please read this!
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Date	May 28, 2021 12:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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