I've hesitated before making this post, but I wanted to share this observation. I've come to realize that seduction is becoming easier as I age for one main reason: I now have perspective and I know now what is beauty.

When I was in my 20s, pussy was everything, it was so important to me. Number 1 on my list. Getting rejected was really painful. It was difficult.

As you go get to know people, lose friends, travel, experience life and beauty, this is when you realize that life is truly a gift and rejection, not a big deal. It sounds very washy washy and abstract but stay with me.

As you grow old, you naturally cultivate a strong point of reference. This is a beautiful place where you can fall back when you face hardship or rejection from women. The whole "be the best version of yourself" is to cultivate that mindset. Your mind will take the least path of resistance and go there instead of spiraling into the depth of self-doubt and self-loathing.

Believing in something bigger than yourself, something truly beautiful, is a great way to reach that place. It can be your purpose, god, a great piece of music, etc. You know that anything else is beneath that and therefore your mind will automatically "downgrade the things that are not important" such as getting rejected by some random woman at a bar.

I listened to Adagio for Strings after being rejected today. This is truly a beautiful piece of music. Simply incredible. Out of this world. Then I watch a documentary about Michelangelo and what he created. The David is majestic. It did put things in perspective. That does not mean my or your problems are irrelevant, but it does give you a better understanding of the human experience.

I think that's one of the qualities of men who attract high-quality women.

Thank you for reading