How do I become a man at 18?

nickwar42 · 2020-10-11T15:02:49+00:00

I’m a 20 year old male in the same mindset. The only thing I can say is 18+ is the longest and best phase of your life, you will automatically adjust to being an adult around 28-30. Try to enjoy your twenties and stop worrying so much about what the world thinks, because humans have 1000s of thoughts per day, your masculinity is only something you think about daily. Good luck buddy.

theweirdo02 · 2020-10-12T02:42:31+00:00

There’s someone out there who’d cherish your sensitivity tho and work their way around it. Confrontation is also what makes you more fearless and confident. It’s scary but don’t pussy out cause then you’ll get insecure plus you have plenty of time to find a significant other. Trust me as another fellow and sensitive 18-year-old, shits not easy but you gotta work your way around it. Plus, I’m sure you’ll show your masculinity through affection or something else. You shouldn’t really worry what others think of you man, be yourself and you’ll be loved:)

kalz44 · 2020-10-14T03:11:45+00:00

The bad news is, you still have a ton of growing up to do... That's also the good news. You're 18, believe it or not you're still a kid. Have fun! You have your whole life to worry abort being a man. As for your mother and brother, I'd suggest seeing a counselor to help manage that situation.

El_Beasg · 2020-10-11T15:45:21+00:00

I turned 21 a week ago so here is everything I know about seduction. And I'm a guy who is 6/10. And I sometimes get a girl. Just remember your gonna loose 80% of the battles and its okay. Dont come off desperate for attention and. Of your in it too capture a woman. Its okay to play for the long run. Like only stalk her in your free time. If you have to do things do them and then resume back to following that girl. Thats my advice. Hope it helps

weird_watercress · 2020-10-14T20:38:03+00:00

If you're living in a house where you're being treated like that I'd say get out of that house. Even superheroes need a fortress of solitude where they can rest and regroup, and if you're being fucked with at home it's constant baggage to deal with.

I would also say to do breathing meditation as a solution to the anxiety, it's scientifically proven to help with this. I recommend building up to one hour a day.

Also, check out David Goggins, the idea I got from him that revolutionised my life is that you can build mental toughness through physical exercise, specifically long distance running. I'd advise getting in the gym too if that's your bag, it does lots of good things for your confidence and your appeal to women. If you can't do that or don't want to invest the time I'd say do calisthenics or kettle bell workouts.

And if you're not reading books you need to do that too. Personal Development, and non-fiction books are great but you can also get good ideas from classic fiction.

2020-10-11T16:34:55+00:00

Sounds to me like you know exactly what you need to be working on.

Title	How do I become a man at 18?
Author	dcw125
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	October 11, 2020 2:58 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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