RedPillers, how do you talk to women who hit the wall after riding the cock carousel for years and who give you the classic talk "I want a serious settled down relationship before having sex...." ? Have you a more subtle way to talk to them than being confrontational ?

RedSunBlue · 2014-03-21T01:39:30+00:00

How do you talk to women who hit the wall

I don't.

JimmyTheIntern · 2014-03-21T01:09:02+00:00

how do you talk to women who hit the wall

Like this. silently walks away

le_king_falcon · 2014-03-21T10:43:54+00:00

Nothing special or snarky or funny needs to be said.

"No thanks I'm not interested in being tied down."

Let the bitch explode, its a useful exercise. You'll learn if you've got plate material or someone you need to distance yourself from due to her being a legal risk. Nothing shows a woman's true colours like the moment she doesn't get her way. Use it your advantage, no relationship is just a male shit test for certain types of women.

1independentmale · 2014-03-21T18:22:37+00:00

It's just a shit test, man. She's trying to see if you're desperate enough to pay for that pussy 'til death do you part - sight unseen. She probably fancies herself a "good girl" now. Walk away, let her find another schmuck to bully into a sexless marriage.

toysjoe · 2014-03-21T01:54:13+00:00

Why are you even trying to procure sex from a woman who has hit the wall?

Fuck that shit. Leave them to their misery and loneliness. They're in no position to be making demands at this point.

Piroko · 2014-03-21T03:56:54+00:00

"I want a serious settled down relationship before having sex...."

"Good for you. Question, who are you, and why are you talking to me?"

Stayinghereforreal · 2014-03-21T01:09:41+00:00

You would keep talking to them? Why, are they coworkers? Relatives? Why would you keep talking about that issue with such a person? Proper response is to just change the topic to something that interests you.

[deleted] · 2014-03-21T03:49:26+00:00

Bzzzzt. Next.

apackofwankers · 2014-03-21T17:21:24+00:00

"I would only consider settling down with someone who I know is excellent in bed"

trplurker · 2014-03-21T01:47:40+00:00

What are you trying to accomplish? If it's just fucks for fucks sake then you ignore her comment and continue seduction. If she absolutely won't fuck you before "commitment" then chances are she's not sexually interested in you (that bodybuilding "BF" she had five years ago was way better, though he made her fuck the entire team that one time) and is just trying to turn you into a beta provider. Don't take the bait and just walk away. Seriously, no matter how hot she is, or how much you want to fuck her, if she's trying to turn you into a betazoid you need to walk the fuck away.

AfterC · 2014-03-21T02:08:21+00:00

Do you just want to fuck them? You get to be choosy, fella. Their time in the driver's seat is over.

What do you want to do, what do you want to say to them? Say that.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-03-21T02:57:15+00:00

I was just fooling around online, and I ran into one of those chicks. 30+, wants to settle down. Anyway I just chatted with her to see where it would go. I told her straight out I am in an LTR, but I like to fool around and have fun. So right off the bat she knows she doesn't have a chance for beta bux.

Anyway over a few additional chats, I told her she is getting older, why she is looking for some guy to settle down with, there is no reason why she can't have fun. Meanwhile I was dropping subtle sexual hints. I got bored of chatting with her.

Around a week later she messages me. She then tells me she is getting older and wants to have fun. For amusement purposes I got her to send naked pics of herself. Then I lost interest.

From talking to her, she managed to find a beta bux. I have no idea why she wanted to tell me that.

CreepAcceptance · 2014-03-21T09:02:54+00:00

Just tell them: If you want someone to listen to your problems, get a boyfriend, then walk way.

astronautwerewolf · 2014-03-21T20:53:48+00:00

You shouldn't be trying to fuck a woman that has hit the wall, or even date one. It does every man a grave disservice by propogating he bullshit female mindset that she can ride the carousel indefinitely. If you are trying to do this, shame on you. You need to either up your game, or discover additional self respect, or both.

mordanus · 2014-03-21T02:33:37+00:00

Just say "Good luck on that." and walk away. A post wall woman isn't worth the time to make a relationship out of and if she is in a mindset that makes her think she is entitled to one then you move on and don't look back.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-03-21T02:39:55+00:00

Anal?

Same type of woman that are saving there vagina for there husband.

Post wall= "So you are buying dinner?" She want's my time she can pay for it.

Aerobus · 2014-03-21T02:22:20+00:00

You don't talk to them. You smile and nod and agree with their bullshit on the surface level while trying your hardest to not burst out laughing.

hammertime999 · 2014-03-21T21:25:36+00:00

I choose to not waste my time or theirs.

chillmonkey88 · 2014-03-22T01:03:07+00:00

I'm not sure how this isn't an accepted code here... read mark Manson's "models". Honesty and always having something better to do. I won't just throw them away. I'll sympathize honestly and either let them take their place in my universe as a plate... or I'll walk away whether a drink gets thrown in my face, they walk away, or beg where in a few situations friend zone them. I don't take shit but at the same time my game and frame won't be altered to potentially have her or some of her friends. I provide honest overt means of how she can be in my life. If she chooses not to be... oh well ill go to the gym, chill with friends, play mtg, hang out with my kid, school/work ect... op, TO ME, it sounds like your having a fear of rejection and or fear of embarrassment if she blows you up in public. Forget about it, be honest and continue life.

Tldr: honesty honesty honesty.

_Fony_ · 2014-03-21T02:26:21+00:00

don't talk to such women.

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