1 Month trip to the USA from UK to find a long term GF/wife

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-28T18:55:18+00:00

If you are good with women in the UK, it should be the same in USA. If you aren't, the accent isn't a replacement for having game.

You will move to the USA if you get a GF here (USA)? The us and uk are awfully far apart for a long distance relationship, so many women won't be interested. Why don't you just date women in the UK, where you won't have the distance issue? A month isn't a lot of time to do this.

Both are good food cities, btw. NYC and DC are good food cities as well and have good F to M ratios.

Boo-urns93 · 2016-06-28T19:36:47+00:00

I am also British and spent 5 weeks in America last summer, although I was just travelling and not trying to find a long term gf/wife.

Not entirely sure what you're expecting; 3-4 weeks isn't enough time to meet somebody, agree to be official and then either go long distance or get married (if you're after a green card).

In my experience, being British (and white for that matter) certainly was an advantage. If you put that you're British in your Tinder bio you will get a decent amount of matches. However, you still need to be able to have good chat in order to meet up. Furthermore, if you're only in a city for a few days like I was it can be difficult to physically meet up even if they want to.

The accent is also a big advantage in that it will get your foot in the door. Sometimes being overheard in conversation would lead to girls start talking to me, whilst any approach you do is automatically easier. However, you still need to have game, an accent is an easy opening but you still have to close.

I wouldn't bother with clubs really, I would stick to bars. Clubs aren't anything like they are in The UK and can be expensive and unsocial.

For what it's worth I didn't think much of Miami nightlife, I found L.A more enjoyable.

Enjoy your trip!

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-06-28T20:03:19+00:00

Sounds like you are looking for a LTR in the wrong place in the wrong country lol. American women are world renown for being terrible LTR choices.

Clyde_Frag · 2016-06-28T19:08:25+00:00

If you have good game you'll probably do well. Might have trouble establishing a LTR in such a short amount of time though.

The British accent is a plus if it's the posh London accent, since this is what every single american girl thinks a british accent is. Being exotic and not from the USA helps but if you have bad game then it won't hide that.

Title	1 Month trip to the USA from UK to find a long term GF/wife
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Date	June 28, 2016 6:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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