So a month ago I went with a friend to some breakdance event he got invited to. I thought, what the hell, and decided to go with him. We got there, danced, met some people, had fun. One girl who was there I met and she looked great. She came with a guy though (who I found out today is just her friend). So anyway, fast forward to today.

I'm walking through campus, i don't go to this school at all, and I see her. I could tell that I definitely met her already. I'm getting good at remembering faces to avoid re opening a girl. So I turned around after we passed and walked up to her and said, hey I think I met you before? She agreed on this and we chatted, I talked about how we met at that dance get together and she's like ohh yeah. Instant rapport at that point. I'm not sure if it was friendly rapport (probably was) or actual interest rapport. So we keep chatting and I find out more about her. Standard chode conversation, what her major was, when classes started for us. She told me about where she worked and I was able to connect with her there because I've done some similar work in high school. At one point I questioned that guy she was with, asked if they were dating, in a joking manner. She said they were just friends (score). Anyway I don't think that means I'm automatically in though. She probably just sees this approach as a friendly conversation and to network. At one point I proposed a meet up, she gave me her number. Whenever I'm taking the number I sometimes realize the girls tone of voice changes as she's giving me it. I honestly think this is a bad sign because whenever it's happened in the past I've failed with that girl. After I take the number I try to set up the meet up. Apparently she's busy everyday 1-7 until school starts for her, oh goody, I'm thinking. So I set up something for Thursday because I have work Tuesday and Wednesday. I ask her, Thursday at 8 good? She's like, okay. We say our good byes and depart shortly after. I text her as I'm walking, "nice chatting! -(my name)".

I'm not sure what to think of this set. Seems like she definitely thinks this is just friends. And it seems like the only reason she agreed was to not have to reject me because we had mutual friends and she didn't want conflict. I think with these types of girls I'd rather be rejected outright instead of being stringed along as just friends and then once I make a move they reject me there. Seems like just a drawn out rejection. Anyway, I'm thinking about not texting at all on Thursday until she texts me and if she doesn't I'll just bail. Feels like the right thing to do, I know that if I text her to confirm she's obviously gonna say yes but when I go and try to kino or escalate she's going to resist it and not want to meet up again. If I go to it and don't try to escalate or kino and invite her out again she'll just see this as a friendship and friend zone me like she did with that other guy. So I think me planning to not text is the best thing to do, thoughts?

UPDATE: Actually I don't even know what I'm gonna do anymore. I've done some facebook stalking and found her profile, she seems like the fun type of girl, fairly attractive to my standards as well, think white washed asian. Anyway, I realize that I would love for things to work out between me and this girl, and I am aware that the more you want something to work out in seduction, the less it'll actually turn out. The attraction has to be natural and cooperative. That being said, I might text thursday to confirm it, show up, run my standard game, go get froyo or coffee, kino a bit, bounce to another location for a walk, and then try to kiss. If it fails then oh well, I'll see if she's up for meeting up again and then schedule a second date right there. If she resists the second date then I'll move on. If everything goes great then awesome I could try to pull her same day and then progress things from there. I'm not really sure how to go about this except for running standard game: confirm, show up, kino/escalate, vibe, bounce, try to kiss, take it from there