Girl flaked on me day of date (Rant/FULL convo)

PiperBigBell · 2019-11-24T22:58:57+00:00

You have a lot to learn. 1. You text like an autistic penguin. 2. Girls have been flaking like that for years

A. You're too emotionally invested

B. Nowhere in this did I see you flirting with her, being sexual, creating sexual tension, or showing sexual intent. You being vague helped allow her to play you

C. You need to cut contact. Someone as emotional as you won't be able to help but to be butt hurt and bitter. You haven't been in the game long enough to have self control

D. She was never showing up to "study". She just liked the attention and after she flaked. You giving her more attention confirmed to her that you were a low value guy. She could tell you were getting mad over text. Text is an extension of how you talk. So what we see, she's already seen live in person.

E. You don't say anything to her. You stay polite, cordial, and ghost. But like I said, you're way too emotional. You're gonna have to get fucked over a lot more before you learn your lesson

Bonus tip: I never believe anything a girl tells me until she's at my front door or we actually meet up.

ImJustSo · 2019-11-24T23:01:37+00:00

Stop your shit, bud. Reality check yourself, before you wreck yourself. You didn't get rejected. You didn't do anything wrong. She fell asleep and just wasn't that invested, you were, so you feel hurt and insecure.

The feelings are fine. Do no more actions based on those feelings though. As far as your actions go, none of this happened.

The only thing that really happened is feelings. Feelings are fine, let them do their thing. They come in, then they go out. We're men. We can hate each other, punch each other in the face, and have a fuckin beer with each other the next day.

Why? Why can we do that? For the same reason you're going to acknowledge that this girl punched you in the face and you'll still fuck her in the next month. You'll get to the beer part. Chill out.

Ask a buddy to punch you in the face if you don't believe me.

2019-11-25T00:48:11+00:00

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SHEaTHOUGHT · 2019-11-24T23:57:18+00:00

Hah, you text like a fuck boy. Learn how to text a girl properly before you go crying around you pussy.

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-11-25T08:40:12+00:00

You're chasing.

She's not investing (because you're chasing and never breaking rapport).

You fail every shit test she gives you. Saying no and trying to be cool is not how you pass a shit test.

Title	Girl flaked on me day of date (Rant/FULL convo)
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Date	November 24, 2019 10:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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