Ex talking behind my back

MisfitPL9 · 2018-04-24T09:27:27+00:00

You are still beta as you are worried about what she is saying about you. Learn to not give a fuck. What she is saying "might" ruin your chances with her friends but you can always try. Plenty of other females out there though.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-04-24T09:55:03+00:00

She is still advertising you. As long as she's talking about you, they will be interested

AshyBoneVR4 · 2018-04-24T10:17:32+00:00

If it ever comes up that some girl tries to call you out on some shit your ex said, turn it around on her. "Why do you think my ex is talking shit about me? If I was that bad, do you really think she'd be talking about me for so long?" Laugh it off. It' not important what your ex said. If anything, she's just trying to make sure you're not happy before she is.

MattyAnon · 2018-04-24T09:53:32+00:00

Be attractive and capitalise on the fact that you're seen as somewhat safe.

justicecantakeanap · 2018-04-24T09:43:09+00:00

Who cares

majorbollocks · 2018-04-24T11:01:28+00:00

Meh her friends would still try you out just out of curiosity. If she talked trash then they wonder how bad were you exactly? If she talked good stuff about you then they wonder what they're missing out on. Just the fact that she spoke about you will get them interested. Women don't spend any time talking about betas

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-04-24T11:05:58+00:00

If you’re attractive probably not. If you’re unattractive yes.

But this isn’t something you’re even thinking about. You’re busy making yourself a better man. You’re focused on new record lifts at the gym, getting that promotion, and starting that new meetup group for pickup football on Saturdays before you take your dog up that mountain hike with your best guy friends. Right?

ReddJive · 2018-04-24T11:08:41+00:00

women are perception based. while they hold on to memories it's only when they are tied to children or emotion. So if you've not given her emotions she will likely wonder what the other girl was bitching about.

Besides...why does it matter what they think?

cl3537 · 2018-04-24T19:08:02+00:00

You were good enough to fuck her. Women are catty, the friends may just want you because you used to be with her. Not her close friends but 'friends' who are in competition with her.

nomyconcept · 2018-04-24T20:23:20+00:00

No such thing as bad press.

Even if she bad mouths you behind your back whilst you are publicly seen as a good looking, successful and assertive man; all her friends will just think that you broke up with her and she is doing damage control or is trying to keep other girls off of you to get you back.

Title	Ex talking behind my back
Author	leCuri123456
Upvotes	10
Comments	14
Date	April 24, 2018 9:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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