And for some reason I still feel like I didn't open enough... I went on a all day bar crawl yesterday and I wish I opened more people as I did freeze up with some, but I did open a decent amount as well so I won't beat myself up too much.

The Art Of Listening

One of my strong points is conversation... too bad I love dance parties so much. Anyways, I meet some friends of friends, and I start talking to these two girls. They instantly fall in love with me. One is engaged, and the other one is visiting her (not engaged). One thing they told my friend is that when I talk, I'm not just going through the motions but am genuinely interested in learning more about them. One of them wanted to get together with me, and both our parties were supposed to meet up but unfortunately our groups never got back together.

Game With My Friend

I opened a few girls, but I still think I come off as friendly as opposed to I want you now... Working on that. At one point, my friend wasn't opening anyone (he is terrified to do so) so I told him for every girl I open, he needs to open one. He agreed, and after I had a 5 min convo with a girl before it died out... he didn't open anyone. So I took his money and told him he's not getting it back until he opens a girl.

This game helped both myself and him... By putting myself in a leader position I felt the need to show him rejection doesn't matter (reinforcing my own beliefs) while helping (forcing) him to get out of his comfort zone.

Girl Starts Grinding With Me, I Wing For My Friend

I walk by and this one girl looks at me and goes "wanna dance?" in front of her guy friend. The old me would have turned it down, saying I don't know how, etc... but I say sure and immediately she is grinding all over me. Eventually she leaves and goes "I'm having a competition to see how many guys will dance with me" and I let her know about my friend's competition. I tell her she HAS to dance with my friend now before she leaves. I bring her over, and to my friend's shock, she's grinding all over him and kisses him real quick. She lets me know he's way too nervous, and finally she leaves. I tried.

Hot Girl And Her Sister

I'm dancing and this hot girl accidentally bumps into me. I immediately take it as a sign of attraction, and grab her by the waist and start dancing with her. She's into it, and she's just having a blast and I decide fuck it, go in for a kiss... and get cheeked. Hey, nothing personal. She eventually introduces me to her incredibly hot sister and I start dancing with her, but she's not as into it as her younger sister. I call her out on this, and she lifts up her hand and shows me an engagement ring. I laugh and apologize, and talk for a little bit with her before I finally eject.

Freeze Up

I wish I could say I was opening every girl left and right, and while I opened a lot (double digits for sure, which is a lot for me) I froze up with one girl. I don't know why, I think it's the type I'm most attracted to. Not your stereotypical hot girl but the punk/alternative types. For some reason in my head I have it that they hate being hit on or it's somehow wrong (I know not true) and can't get past this stupid mental block. Disappointed in myself for this one.

Conclusion

Opened lots of girls, didn't really go anywhere for the most part. I probably come off as too friendly (even though I escalate). I escalate to a point, but then things sort of die out. I still get AA even though I can open plenty of girls... and I do best when I'm not even thinking about it and just go up and start talking. I had a fucking blast though... and I also got some sweet massages and some kissing from a female friend I've been flirting with all night. So that's cool I guess.