Time: 2.5 hours

Sets: about 7-10

I've had several bad moods and sessions the last days, but I've still been going out every day to daygame for over two weeks now, and today I felt I broke out a little of my lil funk! It helps a lot to have cool and fun wings to go with, pushing me to do better, more assertive.. I notice with them and myself, I have more "experience" with daygame, but they're progressing quicker (I feel), and I think it's due to mindset, and the feeling of deserving - My mindset kinda sucks, it's weak, I'm caring too much of what strangers (around the set) is thinking/hearing of me.. I'm progressing, but honestly this is me today, a weak "frame".

Also, I lost my mic so I haven't recorded the last times, and my memory suck! Gonna get a new one soon and start recording my sessions again :)

LESSONS

  • Feel like you’re infringing time/space? She will reflect by rejecting you on the open.
  • Several hot girls holding eye contact with me as they walk past - They’re inviting me to go back, run if you may, and talk to them! You find them sexy, they find YOU sexy ;)
  • Ask in it is given; hug, phone number, conversation, presence, fun, honesty..

REFERENCES

  • Woman respond better to more assertive opens/attitudes
  • Been approaching on the same street every single day for over two weeks; NO ONE’S out to get me, nobody cares enough, YOU are the only thing that matters in your life, be PROUD, raise your head, your voice, MAKE PRESENCE, WHO CARES!
  • My wing is being loud sometimes, yelling, breaking rapport with girls; he’s "getting away with it" because he chooses to be at ease with himself, he’s confident, and assertive with the girls because he wants to fuck them and he believes in himself - SO CAN I.
  • Wimpy is PLAYING TO NOT LOSE = rejections/creepy
    • Assertive is PLAYING TO WIN = hook/good vibe

GOOD POINTS

  • Stayed in session for long, and opened several sets, probably around 7
  • Turned up the assertiveness after doing shitty, wimpy opens (set turned good “suddenly”)
  • Said I needed to run to open, becuase I have challenges doing this (spotlight effect) - so I did it!
    • She loved the open, but seemed unavailable

IMPROVE POINTS

  • Thinking and shit is not effective in convincing to approach thru AA, ACTION (baby steps) IS!
    • Warm up session the first 5-15 minutes, just say hi, or ask for the time, or open with something funny (weird statement or question), ask for directions!
  • Get a new mic and start recording sessions again!
  • Running out of things to say, more man-to-woman
    • Have some backup stacking lines for follow-up and convo spikes to try!
  • I’m really stifled and afraid to be more dominating/assertive and breaking rapport, it’s heavily in my vocal projection, being too concerned about people around me hearing (and caring at all)
    • Practice speaking louder, and from diaphram, use more rapport-breaking tonality

STICKING POINT

The ONE thing that would elevate your game

  • Neediness
    • Start working out regularly
    • Meditate more
    • Work on other important life areas
    • Do your hobby
    • Affirmations