I never really work hard on anything on my life, I get girls easy, my family supports me, i'm not rich but they never ask me to pay any bills, I work and I bought myself one car (internship, pretty easy tho). Never study on high school, college was easy to pass, but I see how much I missed.

I'm not beying ungrateful, but I seem not to have the same fuel that so many people have to work really hard, but I want to. Because I always feel mediocre compared to other cooworkers.

How can I improve that?