Online Game is actually pretty easy in my experience. Firstly messaging: keep it simple, relevant, cheeky and a little bit irreverent. Take the piss a bit, but dont be a straight up dick obviously. If you get a reply, second message you build rapport, common ground and humour is key! By the third or fourth message (no later than this as you just get stuck in a boring internet conversation, which lets face it, neither party particularly cares about) dont ask as such, say something along the lines of 'we should go on a mini-adventure'. 3/5 girls will probably flake at this point, but fuck it, online dating is a numbers game anyway. Pick a time and place. dont faff about. assertiveness is key.
Always start with simply going for a drink, if you're not into them then you can eject without being a dick about it (as you've technically gone for a drink but you 'now have other stuff to do') but if they're cool you can have a couple more drinks, vibe etc and move the 'adventure' on from there (different bar, late night food, site of natural beauty etc ....possibilities abound)
As for 'date-game' itself, I find simple is best. Firstly you've got to be well turned out, that is tantamount, dress well, be clean, smell good - simple shit. start with light kino, getting more frequent but keep it light (yet tangible..to you at least). Be consistently cheerful, laugh often and easily. Conversation thread (really easy when you know how). Banter! wind them up a bit! but dont be a cunt! no one likes a cunt, there's a fine, yet discernable line.
Be a bit cocky, almost presumptuous, again; not arrogant! Show genuine interest in them. get them to talk.
Something I have been doing recently (adapted from that guy who asks the three questions then goes straight for the kiss) but you might have a different opinion on, is, about half way through the date, presuming its not going badly and you've been escalating physically is simply ask, 'wait'...'do you find me attractive?' this will take them by surprise a bit, assuming they dont burst out laughing or anything obviously negative then say 'ok, im going to kiss you'. kiss them. waiting till the end of the date to kiss is unneccessary and counterproductive. all kinds of barriers go down once you've had that first kiss. laugh and say something along the lines of 'i really had to do that'. if she pulls away laugh it off and try again later.
Now that you've kissed them you can make the conversation more sexual without it potentially being weird. have a sexual chat the content of which can be anywhere from pretty tame to incredibly risque depending on the vibe your getting, setting etc - you've got to judge the situation!
kiss them some more. kino. as it gets later suggest they go back to yours. if its a first date they will probably say no at first. laugh it off, turn it round on them and say something like 'shit you dont think I put out that easily do you, you just really need to meet my puppy!(whatever, doesn't matter- as long as its something you actually have at your place, guitar, antique lamp...)'. Forget it for a while, suggest again, be assertive. Again judge the situation, you can push it a bit but dont keep pestering. if she's really not going to come back to yours then accept that and let it go. always next time.
Once they're back at yours its the easiest thing in the world to F-Close if you've already been touching, kissing, having sexual conversation etc.
Thats my very rushed but relatively foolproof guide to getting laid through the internet! (works for facebook, okc, pof etc) - Obviously nothing here is new or original its just an amalgamation of various things i've picked up from here, that when used together seem to work great! If anyone has any input, pointers, criticisms etc I'd love to hear them. Obviously that method works with my personality, other things might work for other personality types. I've f-closed upwards of 15 women in the last 2 years using this simple method.
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