Questions to all female lurkers of r/seduction

Krautnugget · 2018-03-16T12:40:27+00:00

It seems like a place where incels come to learn how to pick up woman. Unfortunately a lot bring their incel viewsviews of woman with them.

I dont now enough about these techniques to really identify them but a lot of guys go to extremes. Either it's I respect woman to much to try to make a move or they come in to hard and push to fast and try do to much. Show interest sure but I dont want to see your wang 2 hours after meeting you regardless of how charming you think you are. Just be a normal guy. Be fun to be around and don't wait 13 years to show some interest. The absolute worst is when you can just tell he has used these same lines 40 time that night instead of just going with the flow.

2018-03-16T12:29:00+00:00

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nat-han92 · 2018-03-16T11:14:05+00:00

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nat-han92 · 2018-03-16T15:38:39+00:00

I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast.

I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game.

Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me have actually read the game, i dont think so. Maybe all guys know how to be fuckboys?

The community has DEFINITELY changed the way I see men. I realize that guys are very insecure about their appearance, which I didn’t know before. I have also realized that they think through every single step they take with a girl, either to get them to bed or to have a relationship with them. I just thought that carries did as they felt without thinking ahead or without planning or without analyzing the girl (as much as it seems they do).

Since I have begun to get hurt, approximately from the ages of 24 to my current age of 26, I’ve been reading a lot about guys and the ways they have to play us. But I didn’t realize that guys have their own YouTube channels for PUA’s, their own books, and their own strategies to understand us women. That is mindblowing.

Finally, I’m currently trying to decipher the type of men that use the game and the tactics in it, from the ones that don’t. Of course I’m scared because I feel that all guys have something of a playboy inside of them, but I’m sure that there are still nice guys that treat women with respect and, at the same time, take the lead.

I hope this helps!

nat-han92 · 2018-03-16T15:40:21+00:00

I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast.

I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game.

Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me have actually read the game, i dont think so. Maybe all guys know how to be fuckboys?

The community has DEFINITELY changed the way I see men. I realize that guys are very insecure about their appearance, which I didn’t know before. I have also realized that they think through every single step they take with a girl, either to get them to bed or to have a relationship with them. I just thought that guys did as they felt without thinking ahead or without planning or without analyzing the girl (as much as it seems they do).

Since I have begun to get hurt, approximately from the ages of 24 to my current age of 26, I’ve been reading a lot about guys and the ways they have to play us. But I didn’t realize that guys have their own YouTube channels for PUA’s, their own books, and their own strategies to understand us women. That is mindblowing.

Finally, I’m currently trying to decipher the type of men that use the game and the tactics in it, from the ones that don’t. Of course I’m scared because I feel that all guys have something of a playboy inside of them, but I’m sure that there are still nice guys that treat women with respect and, at the same time, take the lead.

I hope this helps!

nat-han92 · 2018-03-16T15:58:05+00:00

I found this place searching through google for questions regarding a guy. /seduction popped up pretty fast.

I have come across guys that were players and only wanted me for sex. As soon as they got what they wanted, they ghosted me generally. So I became exhausted with these scenarios and started investigating. Thats how I came across the game.

Believe me: seeing the terms kino, IOI’s, “closing”, alpha, beta, shit test.... that frightens ANY girl. I dont know if the guys that have played me have actually read the game, i dont think so. Maybe all guys know how to be fuckboys?

The community has DEFINITELY changed the way I see men. I realize that guys are very insecure about their appearance, which I didn’t know before. I have also realized that they think through every single step they take with a girl, either to get them to bed or to have a relationship with them. I just thought that carries did as they felt without thinking ahead or without planning or without analyzing the girl (as much as it seems they do).

Since I have begun to get hurt, approximately from the ages of 24 to my current age of 26, I’ve been reading a lot about guys and the ways they have to play us. But I didn’t realize that guys have their own YouTube channels for PUA’s, their own books, and their own strategies to understand us women. That is mindblowing.

Finally, I’m currently trying to decipher the type of men that use the game and the tactics in it, from the ones that don’t. Of course I’m scared because I feel that all guys have something of a playboy inside of them, but I’m sure that there are still nice guys that treat women with respect and, at the same time, take the lead.

I hope this helps!

plowzedong · 2018-03-16T08:36:20+00:00

I’m a guy but I can’t imagine it is good, this sub has a really high misogynistic vibe around here where people think it’s acceptable to randomly approach women on the street asking for their number, but they don’t put themselves in the women shoes and realize that a random dude approaching her can be scary, not to mention if that dude is sketchy. But whenever I point this out I get downvoted, take this to any other sub and they will agree with me. But here, I get downvoted

anonanonetc · 2018-03-16T10:42:11+00:00

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Title	Questions to all female lurkers of r/seduction
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Date	March 16, 2018 8:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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