How to pickup girls at a loud nightclub

Captain_w00t · 2021-03-27T09:52:03+00:00

If you don’t dance, clubs are mostly useless for having fun.

In general, some tips:

be open to socialize organically. If you already know someone there go to them for some small talk, etc...
clubs are mainly for dancing, so the most basic thing you can do is putting yourself in the center of the dance floor and dance like you’re alone, enjoy the music. You don’t need to be a pro-dancer, feeling the rhythm and moving the body at beats is more than ok.
if you are close to some girl, try some light eye contact, but keep the focus on your fun and dancing. Try to open your body language and see if she reciprocates, then go from there with grinding. Keep it light.
dance floor gaming is made of non-verbals and body language, you can’t talk, there’s time for that. The more you subcommunicate fun vibes (even by just enjoying your own time), the more they will try to approach you
if you happen to dance/grind with someone, don’t rush into asking name, introducing yourself etc... keep it casual, like it just happened to dance, without big deal. The night is long, you might see then later at the bar, and spark a conversation (which makes it a warmer approach than going cold)

Of course, if you don’t like clubs, avoid them.

traldi_ · 2021-03-27T07:50:44+00:00

Write what you want to say on the notepad app on your phone and hold it up to her like passing notes in school. I.e.

HI! IT'S REALLY LOUD IN HERE AND I DON'T USUALLY GO TO CLUBS BUT I THINK YOU'RE REALLY CUTE. CAN I BUY YOU A DRINK?

She'll at least give you points for originality.

Sabahyy · 2021-03-27T07:45:27+00:00

Well if you can't dance I'd recommend you learn a few moves before you go, just basics nothing drastic. If the girl you like is dancing, make eye contact with her a few times and make sure she's not with another guy. Then walk up to her and dance together for a couple of songs. If she moves away or her body language wasn't reciprocating your advances then forget about her. But if she seems interesting, whisper in her if she wants to grab a drink. Some will say no as they just want to dance and have fun, but others who're interested in you would most likely say yes. Then you take it from there

MisterShogunate · 2021-03-27T08:45:51+00:00

Night club game is pretty much trying to socialize at a house party. You make quick low investment interactions with as many people early on in the night and then you eventually try to expand the rapport and determine which girls are open to connect the longer the night goes.

loginreddittoknowme · 2021-03-27T12:20:03+00:00

Ask! May I have a piece of tail.

Alpha-011 · 2021-03-28T22:58:26+00:00

Dude where's the fucking nightclubs!!!?????????

Take me to the club first you see then I give you 5 credits for advice

Title	How to pickup girls at a loud nightclub
Author	Sexyswimmers
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	March 27, 2021 7:33 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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