Need advice for being less nervous

ManHunted_ · 2017-12-18T04:05:47+00:00

Be in the moment. Only way to do that is practicing meditation. If you start analyzing or anticipating the conversation, you will get nervous. Just wing it!

xuqmiqoxe · 2017-12-18T04:32:33+00:00

Why did you get nervous? Did you expect to get something out of the conversation you were having? A lot of times when this nervousness happens is when you know you are about to try to number close or go for a kiss or something like that. My advice is to not look for anything out of the conversation, but instead try to have fun, project that you are a cool guy and really not worry about the outcome. if you do however, get into that same situation, just think, these girls have not left, they must think that I am cool so asking them for a number would not be awkward or weird, I shouldn't be nervous about it.

rangerdanger0707 · 2017-12-18T06:16:40+00:00

You landed yourself in a tough situation. Hanging out sober and solo with a group of random girls you just met? If they take control of the conversation and start talking about “oh my god becky, last week chad kissed britney,” and you can’t relate or aren’t relevant to the topic, you’re dead fish mate. You’ve got a short period of time to take control of the conversation topic, other wise you’re trapped in the shadow realm of eating/fucking with your phone in silence.

Steve_Savage · 2017-12-18T07:24:50+00:00

Quit trying to control a conversation. Girls will just blurt out things so go with the flow, even if it bores you. Trust me lots of things girls say are boring (do we really care about lipstick and nail covers) but a good conversationalist will keep it flowing by sticking to the topic at hand and encouraging more dialogue.

Title	Need advice for being less nervous
Author	Bill_The_Neighbor
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	December 18, 2017 2:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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