It’s very easy to be blinded by outcome and forget the process. You want to talk to someone but you worry so much about what’s gonna happen that you end up censoring yourself. And the real issue is at some point you are so comfortable with censoring yourself all the time that it’s normal. It’s normal for most people and the advent of dating apps is really a symptom of that.

On top of that all the worrying is within your imagination which prevents you from experiencing real life and prevents you from surprises because the truth is you don’t know shit what what is going to happen and how people are going to react to you.

In this video, this beginner is struggling and when almost all hope is lost, something truly magical happens - I hope it inspire you, good luck out there :)

https://youtu.be/m-e_bLg79nU