Has lifting improved your sex life?

Abel_Lemarc · 2019-05-06T11:43:45+00:00

Absolutely. Yes... and yes.

Sex literally changed for me once I lost a significant amount of weight. Sex itself is a work out.. so why not work out regularly (including lifting) to be good at it.

I certainly get more looks being fit than I was bigger... think of it this way, you've definitely checked out women's bodies in public.. maybe you weren't attracted to their face or they weren't your type but you still appreciate a nice body. Women will do the same.

-PlushToys- · 2019-05-06T10:50:13+00:00

Yes. Girls will start talking to you or look you at the gym once you get bigger and lift heavy.

Some of my old friends suddenly wanted to bang, and a lot more women smile when they see you.

Unlikely_Composer · 2019-05-06T10:55:05+00:00

I used to be a regular gym goer, and now I’m not, so I have a decent comparison.

Yes. Yes they do. I only stopped because I moved to a new country and wanted to relax a bit. I’m going home in 4 weeks and I can’t wait to start again.

Part of it will be physical and part of it is also emotional. Women are attracted to a man with a mission, someone who can keep at something.

Theplayasclub · 2019-05-06T14:56:43+00:00

Yes. Everyone likes someone who is in shape. They don’t have to be Mr. Olympia, but a nice solid frame is attractive on any guy/girl.

greenlittleman · 2019-05-06T15:05:40+00:00

Being in a good form could compensate your unattractive traits and mistakes in your game. Still you wouldn't be able to get hottest girls or a lot of girls just because you become ripped and have amazing body. So if you have zero success with girls then it would give you a chance to get some of them just based on your body alone, though it would be low quality girls and you will fail with a lot of them anyway. Because if you have had needed social skills then you would be able to get girls even while being fat or skinny. Lifting could help, but it isn't something what you should do instead of game, it is just a bonus which could make things easier (specially on Tinder). Guy with the best form I know struggle with girls tremendously. Another guy who is fat gets hot girls.

olronk · 2019-05-06T20:05:25+00:00

Well I've been lifting, cardio, diet etc for about 4 years now and neve had any woman consider me attractive before or after I started lifting.

I began lifting as a part of my journey to become more valuable and hopefully attractive enough for women but after 4 years of self improvement, it seems I haven't gotten any more attractive than when I started.

I mean logically i thought that if i lifted and stopped being overweight than maybe I'd be attractive enough for a woman lol, but turns out that wasn't the case at all.

So no, lifting has improved my life tenfold but when it comes to women it's literally had no effect whatsoever.

Title	Has lifting improved your sex life?
Author	thenewyorkmind
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	May 6, 2019 9:40 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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