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[–]ksm6149 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If you can naturally work it into a conversation or it somehow relates to what you two have talked/joked about before (bonus points if it's something funny) then go for it. But I'd limit it to just a couple pictures just to avoid bombarding her. I'm a dude and I'd find it annoying if people kept sending me pics I didn't care about.
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[–]ksm6149 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Probably a good call. It's not the end of the world if you don't text her. If she asks how your trip was when you get back then you can re-open things from there
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[–]daygamer0911 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When you get back text her a brief story synopsis about something you did/experienced (one sentence, leading her into asking more about it)
[–]ksm6149 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely plans. Something like "hey how've you been? (Assuming you haven't heard from her) Just got back from my trip. I was thinking we could catch up over [CASUAL_DATE] on [DAY_AND_TIME]" If she doesn't respond then move on
[–]midnight_toker22 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it was a 2 week vacation, I wouldn’t text her at all - you should be enjoying your time. But since it’s for work, I wouldn’t change my behavior significantly. Since you’re not going to be planning an imminent date, there’s not much of a reason to text her at all - but if there’s something noteworthy to text her about, go ahead.
But don’t text her for no reason just for the sake of reminding her that you exist, or because you’re afraid things are going to “cool off” or whatever.
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