Being good looking isn't good enough

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-06-28T18:57:39+00:00

It's all more of a mental thing than a looks thing. Good looks will open more doors for you, but they alone won't convert opportunities once your in them.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-06-28T19:03:13+00:00

You don't have to be the most handsome or interesting person in the room. You just have to be more interesting than the average guy. This is not very difficult.

CoffeeNSquats · 2015-06-28T20:18:53+00:00

"Going to the gym, work, then home is what boring people do no matter how good looking you are."

I disagree. It all comes down to perspective. Those things inherently are not boring, but if you view them as something boring, then thats how it will come off in conversation.

My gym life is fantastic. It's actually one of the most interesting social circles I have, but thats primarily because I compete in a sport that is very niche and tends to be very tight knit. It's a lot deeper than simply iron and sweat. Plus, everyone can relate to wanting to work out and get fit. Frame it so others can relate.

Work is something everyone does. Does it have to be boring? No. Even the most humdrum jobs have their interesting bits. I worked as a supervisor at a fairly regular store in the city. I've had insane experiences from the ceiling exploding from water loading, to having been involved in a sting. As a retail store supervisor. Shit happens.

Home? Home is probably where you can most express yourself. Don't be one of those people that just says 'eh I just go home, netflix n chill' - even though I say this to bring chicks home if they get the meme. My dog is at home, my laptop with my videos from festivals is at home, knick knacks from around the world are at home, my books are at home.

Maybe your perspective is boring.

jeffthehat · 2015-06-28T23:07:53+00:00

This.

I get called "handsome" and "pretty-boy" on a pretty regular basis, but I've struggled with women for most of my life. It wasn't until I started expressing myself openly and pursuing hobbies that I enjoy that I started having real, consistent success.

You to have a baseline interestingness about you to become attractive to women. Looks are helpful, but very over-rated.

tamilgangster · 2015-06-29T11:04:18+00:00

Its not just having interesting hobbies, its presenting yourself as interesting. One can have a very entertaining life with alot of hobbies, but when talking to a girl, ur personality must come off as charming and approachable. Personality matters alot and that can be conveyed, by subtle factors lke the way you dress, the way to talk, body language, and also how sexual you are(eg knowing how to be physical, good kisser, good dancer, etc)

Title	Being good looking isn't good enough
Author	Guy10010
Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	June 28, 2015 6:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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