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[–]StephenDawg 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think you can be this granular with this stuff. Everything effects everything else. If you're hot, your stupid words might be forgiven. If you're charming, your looks might be forgiven. There are too many variables, and there's never an "all things being equal" situation. You work on everything, and occasionally one part of your work will compensate for another.
Generally, it boils down to you weren't attractive. If you never opened your mouth and she's disinterested, then it's physical. If you were talking to her and she wasn't interested, then it was that.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop complicating my men, if she rejected you just go to the next one
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[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can we say that it is more likely to reject someone we found unattractive rather than someone who wasn't that experienced in the interaction?
[–]STD_Tyler 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't you reject women too? Don't you swipe left on women? It is the same bro, they are not attracted to you, it is not rocket science. And have you ever given a feedback to a girl you rejected "Sorry you are just fat" ?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First of all, I don't use online dating. Secondly, I am not complaining that women don't give feedback. It is pretty normal to not give any feedback, I wouldn't give it myself. Thirdly, it never happened for a woman to approach me, so I have never rejected anyone.
[–]sinbad2011 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if you got ur shit together, many girls are gonna reject us for many other reasons. Different values, different personality types and other stuff.
Rejection is normal. Don't let it stop you. Don't sweat rejections. Just improve your social skills, not just for the girls, but for yourself. Girls, you can get them NOW. Girls got low standards. But, the cooler you become, the more girls will want you because u get hotter.
[–]timine29 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
As a woman, I had rejected men mostly because they weren't attractive at all. No need to be a 10, but to attract women, a man should have good hygiene (clean hair, clean teeth, clean body, clean NAILS!), a good haircut, clean clothes (no ripped shirts), good skin, not being obese (overweight can do it, but if you're over 30 BMI consider losing some weight).
If you act overly awkward (eg: mental issues), this can be a problem.
The other reason is if I'm taken, you will be rejected but I'll still be nice with you. I know it takes effort to talk to a woman.
Well, I always take care of myself and my BMI is healthy. It is hard to approach a woman that has given no IOIs but the thing is you lose many chances. I only approach women that show interest because it is much easier and "safer". However, a really confident guy approaches without expecting any sort of validation from the woman, which is the hardest thing to do.
[–]Gloomy-Jicama 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NOPE. You have no idea why a women will reject you. She could be
Be having a bad day Be on drugs Be married You remind her of ex...
Don’t think about this... Just talk to more girls.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
let me think of all the reasons
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you please explain the fifth point? What does BTS mean? Also, I have a bubble butt, does this make me feminine? Does a bubble butt look feminine on a man?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
BTS is a boy band from Asia. All of their members are quite feminine in their appearance . They wear makeup, apply lipstick, wear girlish clothes, dye their hair pink, you get the picture.
As for the butt it depends. A girl's ass would be round a boy's ass on the other hand has to be strong.
Oh and your ass should be in proportion to rest of your body.
I have a aquare bubble butt and I workout to make it strong
[–]gbrl944 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Um point 5. Help me. I'mma a more feminine guy, but do you honestly think "real girls" only like masculinity. Like no spite, I honestly wanna know.
First I might wanna ask you what aspect do you think you are feminine? Your face? Physique? Voice? Or your personality?
[–]gbrl944 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personality and voice
Ok people are usually more attracted to the secondary sexual characteristics. Which is the reason why us guys like tits and ass. And why girls like guys with beard and muscles. So in order to get girls to flock you, you've gotta be a masculine dude.
However with the way society is changing you can get laid despite being a feminine guy.
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