How do I get over the fear of coming off awkward to a woman?

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-21T17:48:23+00:00

Honestly, avoiding a phone conversation isn't that bad an idea if you can meet--though that might be tough given Covid.

If you want your mind to not go blank, prepare some content to talk about in advance. It sounds ridiculous, but it can help a lot.

_praisekek · 2020-07-21T18:23:03+00:00

You have to fail to succeed. Don’t be afraid of failure. If it doesn’t work out with this girl move onto the next one.

vcarpe · 2020-07-22T22:20:46+00:00

The more experience you have the less you will experience this.

If you have butterflies in your stomach just look at it as excitement/adrenaline and think to yourself, this is going to be exciting! It will be an adventure. And you will gain energy.

Also, you are afraid of awkwardness, but it will 95% happen. So just accept it as part of it. Awkwardness is FINE. All my dates have some awkwardness, and I still can get laid from many of them. Just accept it, and don't fight it. If it comes, just feel the pain, don't run from it. Then you will notice that it aint as bad as you thought.

When you notice you can get laid regardless, you will start losing it. And you have to experience it if you want to overcome it. You will only lose this fear when you are fine with it happening.

Title	How do I get over the fear of coming off awkward to a woman?
Author	klixiam
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	July 21, 2020 4:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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