Confused on how women love according to RP

always_sad12 · 2018-08-05T01:45:22+00:00

Dude women fall hard in love. You just have to understand that it can fade. But while it’s there, it’s powerful. My ex used to spend her entire paycheck on gifts for me. My other ex would suck me off in changing rooms two years into our relationship. One would cry half the time I made her cum and made me promise I’d marry her. They’d cry if I didn’t reply for a day. They all would spend an hour describing our future kids.

But now they aren’t in my life anymore. The second I started acting like a dork ass beta, that insane infatuation for me evaporated. Some took longer than others, but if you mess up too many times it’s over. No matter how much they love you. Then they rewrite history in their heads, explain away the intense emotions they felt for you, and move on.

So yes women can love you; even more than you love them. They just won’t love you unconditionally, like your mom did, but that’s okay. Just meet those conditions. They’re usually not that hard anyway.

CainPrice · 2018-08-05T02:54:17+00:00

It's more that a female companion isn't going to love you the way your mother loved you.

Women love conditionally and opportunistically and make decisions based on feelings. This means that today, right now, your girlfriend could love you more than she's ever loved anybody and be 100% certain she wants to marry you and have babies with you and that you have something important and special that will last forever. Then tomorrow, she'll be out with her girlfriends and another guy will hit on her. She won't cheat on you, but she'll keep thinking about that guy and thinking about it and thinking about it and suddenly start feeling like maybe you're holding her back.

The next time you talk to her, not only will she tell you that her feelings have changed. She will tell you that she's been unhappy for months and that your relationship has been wrong from the start and she was never that into you anyway, and how could you not have seen the signs like she did. The fact that you were a great boyfriend yesterday doesn't matter. It's like it never existed. It doesn't buy you any points for today. She only cares how she feels today and how you might make her feel tomorrow. How she felt yesterday doesn't even exist any more. It has zero value. Today, she might decide that the last six months were crap when yesterday, she might have said they were wonderful. Today is all that matters to her.

Ghyslain333 · 2018-08-04T23:00:46+00:00

They love the way you make her feel, so give her the feels and you'll keep her hooked.

RedLegendx · 2018-08-04T23:11:45+00:00

Opportunistic, they will love you in the moment for what you can provide or make them feel. In that particular moment.

2914iwiK · 2018-08-05T03:17:51+00:00

Men and women experience love in different ways.

For women, love is how you make her feel. It's no different than any other feeling or emotion like anger, sadness, grief, joy. Those feelings are always passing. This is why we say women cannot love, because it's always temporary.

She "loves" you while her hormones and brain chemicals are giving her feelings. These are always strongest with new partners, and decrease with time. She might love you for a week, month, year, but you shouldn't expect it to last.

Shieldless_One · 2018-08-05T21:01:34+00:00

Women “love up” so to speak because their love is based in necessity.

You love a girl because you want to but she NEEDS a man not only to be accepted socially but guide her.

They are like kids because kids and pets also love out of necessity, what you do for them so to speak.

fabelisback · 2018-08-04T22:56:57+00:00

Ofc they feel love but it's driven by evolutionary mechanisms.

RPGivesYouWings · 2018-08-04T23:50:54+00:00

Women love children.

Title	Confused on how women love according to RP
Author	platinummattagain
Upvotes	3
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Date	August 4, 2018 10:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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