There's this girl in my class. I don't know whether or not to ask her out.

rayphite · 2013-03-31T20:12:22+00:00

I am no PUA myself, and never post because others can do a better job. however, in this case, I have dealt with this situation and I think I can give you a different perspective on your question.

My question: Should I ask her out, or just move on and meet other girls?

What you should do is ask her out. Just do it. It can go 2 ways: 1) she says yes (great you have a date), 2)She says no. Now if she says no, it will only be awkward if YOU make it awkward. This is why in this subreddit Confidence is such an important factor in seduction. Make her saying no not really a big deal and continue interacting with her like usual, so there hardly isn't any awkwardness in the situation. THEN you can go and move on with other girls.

The reason why you SHOULD ask her out is because if you weren't going to, you were going to go on to other girls anyways. Why not try with this girl and not have the feeling of regret later on that "maybe she would've said yes". At least if she said no, then you would know and move on.

meat_delivery · 2013-03-31T20:12:35+00:00

When you do the assignments, you certainly get to talk about other stuff as well, so find out what she's interested in and talk about that. Get to know her but make sure she gets to know you as well and then ask her out. She may still decline but that's a risk you'll have to take.
'Moving on' is not even the correct expression here, because you didn't give it a shot with her yet.

This quote sums it up: In the end, we regret the chances we didn't take, relationships we were afraid to have and the decisions we waited too long to make.

Hope this helps.

dysrhythmic · 2013-03-31T20:12:00+00:00

Fuck this thought of being "awkward". If you want to ask her out, then ask her out but you're probably friendzoned so you know... it actually can be awkward in your relations. I think you should meet other girls if you don't care about her and just want to meet some girls but if you want her then what's there to loose (if there's one way frienship)?

woodyreturns · 2013-03-31T21:01:15+00:00

You need to talk about stuff outside of the classroom. Try teasing her about something she said or is wearing. Once you guys get talking then bringing up hanging out sometime is no big deal. You shouldn't worry about it getting 'weird'. Things only get weird if you make it weird. Just dont make it a big deal. You should also not think of it as asking her out. Just ask her if she wants to hang out and be chill. Remember. No big deal. Ten no matter what happens, go and meet other girls anyway. Live it up bro.

Title	There's this girl in my class. I don't know whether or not to ask her out.
Author	mj2390
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	March 31, 2013 7:49 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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